WILL I EVER FEEL NORMAL???

DivaDimples
on 4/3/11 12:38 pm - LA
Well I'm just shy of making my 3 weeks post op and just was wondering if i will ever feel normal. I'm not actually in pain but I just constantly feel like I'm carrying a mass around or lets just say i feel my stomach all the time. I'm totally scared of eating, Having a hard time getting my proteins in, my fluid intake has improved. I'm trying hard to readjust how to eat; its stressing me out soo much until I don't want to eat. Will this get any better for me?
    
Kelleybell122
on 4/3/11 12:43 pm - Powell, OH
I hit a rough patch like that just last week, but it is getting better.

Hang in there.
            
DrHollywood
on 4/3/11 3:46 pm - Harbor City, CA
@ Kelleybell

We had surgery the same day! 
How are you doing now?

May I ask you how many times you eat a day and how many ounzes per serving?

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babzmcgee
on 4/3/11 12:46 pm
 Yes, you will feel better! Take your time, eat slowly. I noticed a change in my mindset around the 3 month mark. It won't take that long to feel better, but you will be more "in tune" with your eating and body by then. Hang in there!!! 

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phatnurse
on 4/3/11 12:49 pm
Diva!!! I've been thinking a lot about you lately, and I'm glad to finally hear from you. I wanted to reach out to you, but I, too, have been a little busy feeling sorry for myself. I'm so sorry to hear that you're having such a rough time, girl. My heart goes out to you.

As you know, I'm 9 days post-op and I must admit I'm feeling better every day. I must admit, though, on the side of my stomach where the drain was (right upper quadrant), I feel plenty sore. They also removed my gallbladder, so I'm not sure whether or not I'm feeling more discomfort than I would have been feeling had they not removed my gallbladder.

I'm hopeful that each day will continue to get better, although I'm having a rough time with my bowels, too (I'm sorry.....hope it's not TMI).

I try hard not to have feelings of regret about doing this, but I just can't help it.  Many that I've spoken to say that they had those feelings but eventually grew to love their sleeve and wished they'd done it sooner. I'm not there yet......
   

If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten. Change starts from within.....             
MediumSoon
on 4/3/11 2:27 pm - TX
I promise it gets better. I feel TOTALLY normal - can go out to eat - whatever. I just eat less..... Hang in there.
                                                
Whitney J.
on 4/3/11 2:29 pm - CA
 Well, I got on here to see if I could find something to help me because I'm feeling just like you are. I'm 12 days out and not feeling too good. I'm wondering if it's my meds or what. I'm so irritable and have periods where I feel like I can pass out, not to mention the issues I'm having with food!. I, too, am wondering when I will feel normal. I know it will take some time but I don't feel I am moving forward much at all. I AM losing well though.
Encrypted
on 4/3/11 4:34 pm
I am 2 weeks post op and having the same issues clear liquid is fine but  if i try the protein shake that was recommended when i get tired make me sick at my stomach it takes around 12 hours before i can  drink again.
(deactivated member)
on 4/3/11 10:19 pm
This is normal adjustment.  First time I ate something other than mashed potatoes I was terrified :).

My tastebuds changed, all the protein stuff and vitamins I bought made me sick (the taste that is).  You have shocked your body in a lot of ways, you're still healing and getting mentally and physicaly used to your new lifestyle.

You're so early on I would imagine that concentrating on fluid is priority number one, vitamins/supplements second, protein third.  

Right now you have to look at food as a way to keep yourself going, it's not going to taste good or be good, just something to keep the motor running.  My plan was three times a day, 4 ounces at a time, and constantly sipping water.

As time passes my tastebuds normalized, almost 7 months later I'm feeling hunger again.  The easiest thing for me to eat during that time phase was an over easy egg or lunch meat.
vignesja
on 4/4/11 12:30 am - NJ
It will get better!!! Believe me!! I am just 6 weeks out, and have had the toughest recovery. Been in the hospital for dehydration, and sick every day since surgery. Still have not gotten in my full protein, and water. There were days I cried (well most days) thinking this was it for me...In fact just Friday I was at the Doctor's office again, and was told I needed to go get an Upper GI series done, so I got the script for it, and was going to go on Saturday morning. I woke up Satuday morning and felt 100% better, I even went to my little nephew's birthday party and was able to eat and drink like I was healed. Yesterday too, a great day!!!! and this morning now.....my 3rd great day. I think I may have turned the corner!! I am actually going to try to get some protein drink in today!! So, please know that it does get better, hang in there. I am so sorry for how you are feeling. I know your angush 1000%! I will pray for you to turn the corner too. God bless.
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