No friends and broke up with my boyfriend

I'm so sad! I don't know what to do. At least I don't have an appetite. I'm going to focus on work and Zumba. I think I may go to see the shrink! I need help!

 Du you belong to a church group or any other social groups? Can you get to a gym to meet others, Zumba class maybe? Did you have friends before the sleeve? If yes what happened? Did your boyfriend break up with you do to your weight loss? Hope things get better!

As for friends, there is a website www.meetup.com where you can find like minded people to start socializing with.

Please know that therapy is a GREAT thing and if you need it get it.  Right now you are going to be going through LOTS of different emotions especially as you lose weight the hormones are being released from your fat cells, so it's time to sit down and talk it out.

Be blessed.

MS Shell

AWWWW U CAN CALL ME ANYTIME IF U NEED TO TALK.. I WILL MESSAGE U MY PHONE NUMBER...

Ouch!  I am so sorry.  Breakups suck.  Therapy is a great thing, and sometimes a crisis is a good time to start - I'm usually more open to hearing things when I feel crappy. 

Everyone is giving you great suggestions.  Also, stay on OH and message folks privately if you need to chat!  We're here for you!!

Sorry to hear that.  I will be your friend, I live in the suburb outside of Cleveland.  Lets keep in touch.  I am not on the losers bench yet but close to it.  Surgery date is December 12!

Thank you so much.

Good luck on ur surgery, its a day after my bday!!

Thanks everyone for the support. It's just one of those days. I really lost my bestfriend and now I have no one. I hope to move past this and the best thing is that regardless of my emotional state I am past medicating my emotions with food. He's been there for much of everything but this too shall pass and i'll meet a guy who'll be just as great minus the mouth. I love him and God will get me through!