Socializing without food

Gwen M.
on 4/3/14 4:44 am
VSG on 03/13/14

Can you all help me brainstorm some great social activities that don't revolve around food?  My favorite date with my best friend was always going to Indian for samosas, but that's not really in the cards for the foreseeable future!  So I'd love ideas. :)

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

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KevinBacon
on 4/3/14 4:51 am
VSG on 03/10/14

Shopping? seeing a movie? 

I feel a little sad about the loss of going out and having a big meal with great conversation. I will be needing to come up with alternatives too. sigh.

HW: 318 Date of Surgery: 3/10/14 SW: 270  CW: 154

  

Gwen M.
on 4/3/14 4:52 am
VSG on 03/13/14

Maybe the replies here will give us both great ideas :)  

I've never been a shopper but, who knows, maybe this will change!  

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)

alykat1116
on 4/3/14 4:53 am - NV

My best friend and I always used to have girls night out and go to the bar...hang out and eat bar food and drink margaritas....Well, no more of that for me. We have been going shopping togeather or we will take the kids to the park. I still have trouble with this though, because she feels like Im being a hermit staying in all the time. She keeps wanting to have another girls night and she just says that I can just drink water... She really doesn't understand that I really can't do that...it would be the worst thing for me right now. I hope you get some other good suggestions :)

Height: 5' 2''     HW: 310     SW: 273    CW: 239 (03/21/16)    VSG was on 03/10/2014  

  

alykat1116
on 4/3/14 4:54 am - NV

She and I did go to a coffee shop about a week ago, and I got tea and she got coffee....we spent like 2 hours there just chatting...and it was nice

Height: 5' 2''     HW: 310     SW: 273    CW: 239 (03/21/16)    VSG was on 03/10/2014  

  

Gwen M.
on 4/3/14 4:57 am
VSG on 03/13/14

So far I'm thinking things like.. bowling?  Roller skating?  Taking walks on the local rail trail?  I live near DC so going into the city is always an option.  There are also festivals in the area for various things.  Once it's Ren Faire season, that's an option!

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)

Tracy D.
on 4/3/14 5:24 am - Papillion, NE
VSG on 05/24/13

I like the way your brain is thinking, Gwen!  Yes, look at activities that require you to move and be active and enjoy something together.  Taking a pottery class, going to an art gallery or museum.  You can alway**** a coffee shop afterward and sip on herbal tea.  

The only problem with Ren Faires and bowling alleys is all the food smells!  

 Tracy  5'3"     HW: 235  SW: 218  CW: 132    M1: -22  M2: -13  M3: -12  M4: -9  M5: -8   M6: -10   M7: -4

 Goal reached in 7 months and 1 week

 Lower Body Lift w/Dr. Barnthouse 7-8-15

   

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

GeekMonster, Insolent Hag
on 4/3/14 6:14 am - CA
VSG on 12/19/13

Tracy beat me to the punch. Art galleries, museums, concerts, readings.  You're near DC so there has to be quite a few options for cultural events.

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Height:  5'-7"  HW: 449  SW: 392  GW: 179  CW: 220

Bearz
on 4/3/14 5:40 am

have a day set aside for mani pedi time and that would be fun

FindingMyWeigh
on 4/3/14 8:36 am
VSG on 10/30/13

Great suggestion! You can catch up and treat yourself at the same time 

 

  

    

    

        

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