Parents in a race against time as both diagnosed with advanced cancer

M M
on 3/27/11 8:54 am
  Nathan and Elisa Bond were both diagnosed with advanced cancer within a week of each other. The couple has an 18-month-old daughter, Sadie. Rosier/News Nathan and Elisa Bond were both diagnosed with advanced cancer within a week of each other. The couple has an 18-month-old daughter, Sadie.

Brooklynites are rallying around a young couple with a toddler who are facing an unimaginable challenge - both parents were diagnosed with advanced cancer in the space of a week.

Friends and family are taking Nathan and Elisa Bond to doctor appointments, watching their 18-month-old daughter, Sadie, and raising money for the battle ahead.

"We're fighting the statistics so we can be here for our daughter," said Nathan, 38, an artist who teaches at Parsons.

Nathan was diagnosed with Stage 3 colorectal cancer on Valentine's Day and given a 60% chance of surviving five years or more.

He was still reeling from the bad news when Elisa, 36, got the results of a lump on her breast: cancer has spread throughout her body.

Her disease is considered incurable because it's so advanced, and doctors told her she has just a 16% chance of surviving five years.

In spite of the grim prognosis, the Bay Ridge couple's spirits have been buoyed by all the support they are getting - and their love for their little girl.

"I wanted to grow old with my husband and care for our daughter," said Elisa, 36, a real estate agent. "Now I'm just hoping for a miracle."


Elisa, Nathan, and Sadie at their home in Bay Ridge (Rosier/News).

Elisa and Nathan had to take medical leaves from their jobs and see doctors almost every day for chemotherapy that leaves them nauseous and exhausted around the clock.

The couple's close friends have created a Web page that is collecting donations so they can stay afloat financially while fighting for their lives.

"We're here to support Nathan and Elisa any way we can," said Laura Gentles, 36, a public relations executive who has known Elisa since they were freshmen at Vanderbilt University in 1993.

So far the site has raised about $25,000 to help cover living expenses, medical treatment not covered by insurance, transportation and extra child care.

But the couple - who met in 2004 and married in June 2005 - are getting more than money from the site. The encouraging emails from visitors - some perfect strangers who have heard about their plight through friends - helps keep them going.

"Everyone should have a chance to feel this much love once it their lives," said Nathan. "Despite our cancer, we feel very lucky."

To learn more about the Bonds or to make a donation, you can visit the blog, Friends of Nathan and Elisa.

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Kathleen W.
on 3/27/11 9:42 am - Lancaster, PA
Wow!! That's some story.  I'm glad that you posted it.  After reading this,  it makes you appreicate what you've got.

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Heather :o)
on 3/27/11 10:53 am
That is awful. I truly hope for a miracle and they will beat the odds.
Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Buddha
Still Fawn
on 3/27/11 11:46 am - SIERRA MADRE, CA
What a story- it really puts things in perspective doesn't it. Thanks for posting it Beth. I think I forget how truly lucky in this universe I am sometimes, and I appreciate the reminder.

 I am still loving life with my sleeve! Been maintaining at or below goal for over 4 years!
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."   - Ramona L. Anderson

M M
on 3/27/11 1:19 pm
 I gasped, just ...wow.
charlotte180
on 3/27/11 3:47 pm - Phoenix, AZ
 Thank you so much for sharing that.  I needed it, believe it or not.

I've been crying and raging (not on others!) from withdrawal and hunger all day today because I'm on the liquid pre-op PLUS I recently quit smoking. I keep wondering - am I strong enough to do this? Why do I have to do this?  Wah, wah wah...

Reading this made me realize how good I have it, how much I have to be grateful for. Especially humbling, when reading about the graceful way they are handling their tragedy.


M M
on 3/27/11 9:20 pm
 That was my feeling too.

As bad as any of us have it.

If could be worse.

Hang in there.
tee_lee
on 3/28/11 12:18 am - Columbia, SC
I've been whining and complaining about working, doing all the cooking and my husband and son not even loading their own dishes in the dishwasher. Been going around in a sulk the last few days feeling unappreciated.

Dang. What a way to put this all in perspective. I am so very, very lucky. What a shame I have been focusing on the negative things lately. My son has a job (and will hopefully move out again), my husband has his health, he makes me laugh and he has a good job. I have a job (even though I'm miserable there - it still gives me a paycheck). I have my health. Touch and go for awhile back in the fall, but am great now. My family members are all healthy.

I promise to start focusing more on the positive. This doesn't get the guys out of doing the dishes, but I will appreciate the fact that we have food to eat that makes the dishes dirty.

I'm going to share this with everyone I know. I think the more people that see it, the more help they can get. Such a dignified, graceful way that they are living their life. I feel so humbled.

Thanks for posting.
              
M M
on 3/28/11 12:20 am
MommyosaRose
on 3/28/11 2:20 am


Sometimes life has a way of reassuring us that no matter how bad our situation may seem, there is always someone who is burdened with a worse situation and this post is one of the most powerful reality checks I have experienced in a long time. It's a shot in the arm for many of us (parents or not) who might sometimes take life for granted. 


The possibility of not being there for my children was one of the reasons I decided to have WLS; I cannot begin to imagine what Nathan and Elisa must be experiencing with the uncertainties that lies ahead…they must be so overwhelmed. My heart goes out to them. May God bless them and their little Sadie, may He give them the strength and courage they need to go on and triumph over this hurdle. 

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