Feel like I need a xanax....dating and WLS

I've seen your pictures and my male prespective is that you are a very attractive woman who has a lot to offer the right man. Ultimately, the things I would look at when deciding on a long term relationship are 1) Does she have a compatable personality to mine 2) Can I stand to be around her for long periods of time 3) Is she smart and can she have an intelligent conversation 4) Is she kind to small animals and children 5) Does she like the same things sexually that I like.

If the answer to all those questions is yes, then he will find you attractive regardless of what you look like. If he is the right man, the skin will not be an issue. I hope you let me know how the date goes. Good luck!

I can remember early on in my dating relationship with my now husband.
He was staying the night for the first time and he came into the bedroom
 sucking in his gut which in turn puffed out his chest. We now have a really
good laugh about that moment. He was so nervous to be naked in front
of me!  He was heavier then, so was I. (we both had surgery). I told him
that when I was perfect then he needed to be perfect, and it is not his body
that made my heart smile.
Sometimes we make things more important than they really are. Some men
in general will have relations with anyone or anything. Some men are
really picky. Some men make you feel like you are the most beautiful woman
on earth.
That man can make you smile, and hold your head so it doesn't hit the toilet
when you are throwing up. That man doesn't care how much extra skin
or moles or scars you have. When you find that man, give thanks everyday!

Your heart and your head will tell you it's the right one to "trust" with your
journey. Sometimes we do make a mistake and give our faith to the
wrong one, You just have to realize that it's life. So get busy living it.

Dani