When I get skinny I will...

...sing Adel's "One and Only" at open mic night
... wear shorts to the amusement park and ride ALL the rides
... go to (insert favorite clothing store here) and not feel like they're all staring at the "big girl" in the "wrong store".
... be one of those cute pregnant women with a "basket ball" tummy
... be fearless

What will you do?

NOT wear pants EVERYDAY in Fl's heat!

Dance again

*hopefully* be able to have more children

Go out in public without feeling like I embarass my family

Be Confident!

I know it's easier said than done, but try to live your life for TODAY rather than waiting for things to happen when you are thin.

You're a beautiful woman.  Why can't you sing at the open mic night?

 Hopefully do some modeling, skiing, and marry a rich hunk, you are a beautiful women and I am sure those things will come true.

Awesome! had to comment! Do what makes you happy & you will be happy! it's amazing the changes you'll see & feel! I never dreamed I'd have the confidence I have now. I do, say,wear things I never considered before and carry myself differently. I try things, I don't hide in the corner or avoid certain places/stores because I now realize I have a right to be there but there were times when I didn't feel worthy and I know all about the fat girl in the little store being stared at! Put your mind to it & do it! My only regret is I didn't do it sooner! GO FOR IT & as you said BE FEARLESS! okay I'm done, Good Luck to you all, enjoy the ride! xoxo

Great thread!

....walk into a Victoria's Secret store and not feel out of place.

....wear shorts without them riding up between my thighs.

....wear a bathing suit without wearing a t-shirt over it.

....walk with a wiggle not a waddle

Run and play with my grandsons!!!!!!!
Run and play with my husband, too!!!

I totally agree with Robby T. go for it now, don't wait! After the death of the 26 yr old OH member a few days ago it really brought home to me that we have to live life now because no one knows how long they have. Live for today, don't wait for tomorrow!

 ...sing Adel's "One and Only" at open mic night 

Why not do that one now?

Love this post. Ive reached my goal, and Ive done so many new things this year, it's hard to list them all. Some are: kayaking, rappelling, hiking in Central America, short skirts, tight slacks,high heels, playing my guitar in public, riding a roller coaster, flying in a plane and having more than an extra foot of seat belt, sitting in a booth and zip lining. I understand the waiting part. It's about confidence. I also think it's great to have goals and celebrate milestones. Do these things when you feel ready. My next goal is to hook up with a vocalist so that I can perform singer song writer music. I'm great at harmonies, but I'm no lead singer.