Off topic but...........

you know this has been the best thing I have read all day! IT made me cry laugh smile and just be happy! These are really wonderful words! IT means a lot coming from someone who does not even know me! Its a great feeling to have some distant "Friends" who just know that your in need of a hug and nothing more! Your are 100% correct! This is a fantastic community of people! I can use all the support and rooting for!! Yes he did my daughter is a miracle and a gift from god! She is the greatest work of life to come into my life! You really just made my day! Thank you a bunch!!

Im so so so sorry to hear!!!!!

thank you for all the hugs!! They really do help!

           

these are the best hugs!! They made me smile tear and laugh! Thanks a bunch!

so sorry shana...sending you hugs and good thoughts

thank you! All these hugs really do help!!

Oh Shana !!  I'm so sorry for the quick relationship breakup.    
Been there - done that myself.......

((((((((Huggs)))))))))))))))))))))

go to youtube and search for  "ripping paper, giggling baby"  - that always helps brings a smile and a cleansing tear to my heart !!


Grab on....it will get better in time..........but find some solace in something for YOU and YOUR daughter -  we are getting into the holidays (I'm single and not seeing anyone either - so I know about that empty feeling)   right now and it couldn't be the worst time to NOT have anyone special to hold - so find some extra special things that you and your daughter can hold onto.......go to the mall - find reading times with her at the mall - extra curricular activies - ect...

BUT REMEMBER   - YOU..........TAKE TIME FOR YOU TOO !!   Go swimming indoors somewhere - find a craft to do  - go to Starbucks and just sit..........BUT TAKE TIME TO HEAL

Did he give you a "reason"    ARe you at the beginning of your weight loss journey -
maybe hes jealous over the weight that you've lost ((I'm writing this without knowing anything about your surgery, ups, downs, etc)   

well thank you a bunch!!! What great words to cheer up a sad soul! Yes with the holidays coming it really just makes it all worse. I really have to just focus on me now. ( finally). I have many things coming my way now and I really can't wait for them! Good things are ahead I know. It's just hard right now to cope with things. I know soon I will be all better and I'll look back and this will be a learning experience! Thank you for all your kind words!!! IT was a break up from someone who simply said 5 years is too long. It really is terrible to hear. Especially when it comes from someone who you have done nothing but loved for those 5 years! I will make it and it will all be okay!

Oh girlie there is nothing that can compare to heart break. Please know I am sending you good thoughts and all the best wishes. I can only imagine that someone/something has a bigger plan for you. xoxo