It's time.
I think a very important addition to your post would be to take personal responsibility for being hurt time and time again. If you touch a hot stove and get burned, how many more times must you do so before you are willing to not touch? Posting information that can be used against you and then is, well, you have a reponsibility because you have opened yourself to attack.
Saying all that, I've never read your blog, probably won't...I don't really read blogs, I had a hard enough time making it through your long post..I'm just distracted by real life today.
I put only as much as is needed online in order to accomplish getting an answer or sharing information. When someone is hurt online, they have to remember that the mean old computer is only a machine and the people writing back to you can't touch you. You are in control of the off button :)
I'll be glad if you can find peace in all this.
me
Saying all that, I've never read your blog, probably won't...I don't really read blogs, I had a hard enough time making it through your long post..I'm just distracted by real life today.
I put only as much as is needed online in order to accomplish getting an answer or sharing information. When someone is hurt online, they have to remember that the mean old computer is only a machine and the people writing back to you can't touch you. You are in control of the off button :)
I'll be glad if you can find peace in all this.
me
I understand that COMPLETELY - and I am unlikely to share as honestly as I had ever again. I have been dealing with folks regurgitating what they ASSUME is my truth -- for months. I'm being dragged along over stuff from a YEAR ago.
The blog's got nothing to do with it. The hate that I've recieved lately is here. I've been called every name you can imagine -- and had some of the most nasty things written about me.
"C_cksucker" is my favorite today. You never tire of seeing your name equated with that, really.
The blog's got nothing to do with it. The hate that I've recieved lately is here. I've been called every name you can imagine -- and had some of the most nasty things written about me.
"C_cksucker" is my favorite today. You never tire of seeing your name equated with that, really.