Eight years post gastric bypass. I ain't dead yet. So there.

You do realize that the fact you aren't dead yet is very annoying to certain people.

And that fact makes me smile. I love thinking of them sitting at their computers stewing because you haven't gone away yet. 

thank you for your thoughts, your blog was the first blog i read regarding wls and helped me see a different informed side!

Happy Surgiversary!!  We share the date, I am wishing it to you and you can't stop me.  So there.  Today is the anniversary of one of the worst days in my life, my mother died 10 years ago today.  I don't have a cute name for this date, just lots and lots of tears.  My boss will probably fire me before the end of the day if I can't pull it together.  Tomorrow is the date on her death certificate, but the reality is she died today, so both days are going to suck.  No one I know even knows my Mother, all my family is gone, I want to scream and cry and run away, but I can do none of those things, I can't eat, I can't sleep, I cried myself to sleep last night.  Nothing can stop this pain.