Taking life on naked...

 Sex in place of nightly snacks.  I dress up super sexy, garters, stocking, corsets, sky high heels.  It works everytime.

HEIDI-that's what I meant by the "reach for the mate, instead of the plate", in my post..but, by the time I did all the things YOU listed, my DH would be LONG dead asleep..lol..yea, we're old and been together too long...

OR...I'd be waking him up, to take me to the ER, cuz I would have broken my leg, from falling off my sky high HEEL (singular), never having even gotten the 2nd one on...

Shhhh but I started wearing thongs and garters everyday, so when I get home I surprise him with hey look whats under here.  lol  It works well as long as you have on flowy dresses that don't show the garter hooks.  I always wear heels,  I fell and broke my toe wearing flip flops, low heels are too dangerous.  lol  I bought a pair of Duckys to walk by the river, they killed my back, I can't wear such low heels without pain.

If you find the cure please share.
I have struggled with this since I was a teenager.