check out "the shapeofamother.com" if you think you NEED plastic surgery
I was researching plastic surgery to 'correct' my stomach and breasts. I came across "the shape of a mother" site by fluke and it's amazing. I realized that my body is actually normal and not freakish from losing 90 lbs. I thought I needed plastic surgery but now I realize that I don't NEED it...I'm normal. I may 'fix' my hangy arms but likely not my tummy or breasts. It's refreshing to see normal women.
Pretty amazing! Another site that reminds us that every body is beautiful is The Scar Project. My daughter has a 16 yr old boy and identical 14 yr old triplet girls. She's only 5'2" and was 62 in around the day before delivering at 31 wks 6 days...she needs a TT because she has a hernia from the pregnancies, but says her belly and stretch marks are a "badge of motherhood"!