Offended but justified?

 My response would either have been extremely profane or something as simple as,"What on earth would ever make you say something so deliberately insulting and cruel?"

But then again, I honestly would have opted for throwing a drink in his face and telling him to go **** himself.

 I am with you.  Life is too short for shallow people.  

buh bye, to him. He's a jerk, his niceness is likely just a cover for the jerkiness underneath. "friendly warning" about your kids???? Eff him!!!

That would be a deal breaker. He's an ass. What if, God forbid, you gain some weight back? Will he dump you becuase of your looks? He will always be telling you what not to eat so you don't gain.

The fact that he can't understand why you were hurt and offended tells me that he isn't a very empathetic person. You've already wasted two months---don't waste any more.

Give him the "good by wave" with International Peace sign, as used the the US Navy guys detained by the North Koreans when they captured the USS Pueblo.  It was a group pic the Korean gov't published, showing all detained Navy guys showint the Internation Peace sign (or so they told the Koreans), with their middle finger of their hands extended.  He's a pig. DAVE

 Way to go Dave! International peace sign!  Love it!  We are from the same generation, so I totally understand.  

I remember that time well. I was supposed to go to Pensecola, FL for Navy training to be a Communication Technician R branch operator.  I got a deferment to a class in Napa, CA at the last moment as I was sceduled to get married. Half of that Florida class that I was supposed to attend ended up on the USS Pueblo.  I thought that photo was hilarious when it hit the newspaper. Wasn't so funny to the detained Navy members, as I'm sure they were punished for their deception about the International Peace Sign.  DAVE

Dismiss his a** now.  What happens if you gain all your weight back?  What if your in a car accident and your face becomes disfigured?   If you don't like me for who I am big or small then I don't want you around at all.  I can't even believe you would even consider staying with him.

I will agree with the other responder. You know now how he will talk to you and treat you if you ever gain weight. If you try to eat a piece of cake he will make a snide coment to you or he will humilite you infront of others. He sounds like the kind who would say things infront of other people. Is that what you want? and your kids, think of what he will say to them, do you want to raise your kids with someone intent on lowering thier self esteem to the point they feel worthless and eat to compensate or worse do drugs. You are seeing a glimpse into the future with this guy. And if he would say these things to you now, over your weight, what else will he say to you about other things. Maybe you get with him have a child and breast feed then your breasts droop, what will he say. You have to have a mastectomy what will he say. RRRRUUUUNNNN!!!!! Love yourself and Love your children enough not to be poisened by this jerk.