Offended but justified?

lady_myst
on 8/2/12 5:01 am
Thank you for all the replies.  At times, I wonder if I am too sensitive.  Apparently I was not in this case and I appreciate your responses. 

In case you were wondering, I am not seeing him anymore.  I just couldnt get passed it and I wouldn't have handled it well if he had said things to my children. 

I tend to believe there is good in every person which can get me into trouble.  I am not sure if he was being cruel or not.  I think I may have found someone with a little more damage than i am prepared to handle.  Lord knows i have my own damage to deal with.  However, I am choosing not to stick around to find out.  I haven't always felt like I was worth better, but I am learning too.  If you would have asked me four years ago if it was better to be miserable or alone, I would have chosen miserable.  I obviously did because I was still miserable in my marriage.  However, today being alone isn't so bad. 

I was a little surprised about the comment asking if i was that desperate for a man.  I will look at that a little closer.  I think the kids and I are doing well.  We take dance and self defense classes together.  We go out as often as we can to movies.  I have two jobs I love.  I go out with the girls when I can.  This weekend 4 of us are going to go on a mini vacation...just us girls...which i am so excited about!!  I dont sit home pining for a guy.  I do admit to wishing I could find someone I really click with.  But my life is not lacking because I am waiting for someone to come find me.  However, maybe I am holding on too long when I know I should move on.  hmmm.  Hey i am all for a kick in the ass when needed.  I will investigate that. 

Anyway, thanks for the support.  This is all so new to me.  I had no social interactions for years.  I didnt leave my home for two years. Confrontation seems HUGE to me as I am still getting down the normal conversations and interactions yet.  lol.  I will get there.  Life is good today! 
                
CatahoulaLover
on 8/2/12 8:45 am - Kent, WA
VSG on 07/20/12
I'd have punched him in the nose and then walked away.  But going forward you don't need a negative jerk like that in your life.  There are plenty of good men out there, leave the childish boys to their childish ways.

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