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So yes there are momments I wish I had never gone through with this.
But I am trying to work thru it everyday.
Cheers
Ron Lester
P.S. The key is to take each day as it comes and try to be as postive as you can!
EXPERIENCE WITHOUT REFLECTION IS HOLLOW
When the weight starts falling off you will be glad that you had the surgery. Yes it does still bother me at times I can't have this or that, BUT I probably would not live as long if i had not had the surgery. I do eat out but you have to be very careful and i did not even try that for a while after surgery.I did SF cookies for me this year and it was nice I did not feel so left out.
I think you were helping future health problems, it was not all vane.
These feelings are NORMAL you are having and please keep coming and talking about them.......
We are here for you.
Just take it one day at a time, be kind to yourself.
Proximal RNY Lap - 02/21/05
9 years committed ~ 100% EWL and Maintaining
www.dazzlinglashesandbeyond.com
You look beautiful!! Your pictures alone are an inspiration for me to shut my mouth and be thankful for what I've just recieved!!
Proximal RNY Lap - 02/21/05
9 years committed ~ 100% EWL and Maintaining
www.dazzlinglashesandbeyond.com
Last night I was feeling this is the worse thing I could have ever done. My RNY was 12/15, nothing is normal anymore. I can't go out and eat and drink beer with my boyfriend, I can't have sex right now, I want to eat want I want and go exercise it off I guess. I wanna go out drinking, and have rough sex if I want too, I don't wanna be told to take it easy, you just had surgery, or no your not going out this weekend.
Belive me I thought of this surgery for 2 years, it wasn't a wake up and do it thing. I lost 152lbs waiting to get the surgery and went in Monday at 185, I want my ultimate goal of 115, but is it really worth all this misery and unhappiness.
I wanna bake and eat Christmas cookies with my daughter and have the normal holiday stuff like every year. I know it will be more normal next year but today I'm really regereting this and I didn't know where else to rant. I would love to say I did this for my health, but other than a major yo-yo dieter, I had nothing wrong with me except a slightly elevated cholosterol level. So it was all for vanity and self-esteem boost, which I know once I start feeling better will make this all worth it. Just had to get this out this morning, before I had to pay for some Saturday psych appt, and that just would have been $$$$$ 
. Ok I guess I'm done, thank you for listening!!!
Have a great weekend everyone!!! Watch out for those grumpy last minute shoppers!!!!
Well i was looking through the OGH Website and Found the REGRET Forum....WOW
What can i say, i read a few and decided to get out, it was Scaring the H*** out of ME!!!!
OH MY GOD.....
Somebody, Anyone please tell me that this does not happen to everyone!!!!
Some people said they Gained all their Weight after 5 YRS
Some said that they now have ANEMIA!!!!
Some Said that they are so Weak now, they had to send their Children to the Fathers Home to Live....
OH My God,
I am sweating!!!
Help please
Even with no complications the long-term affects of WLS and what it does mentally can be quiet trying at times.
I wish you the best and hope the complications stop for you. Please share your concerns and story because those doing their research need to know the TRUTH it isn't always glory and praise about WLS and no one should go into it without knowing everything that could potentially happen, even further out people can and do have complications.
Proximal RNY Lap - 02/21/05
9 years committed ~ 100% EWL and Maintaining
www.dazzlinglashesandbeyond.com
