OT: I've turned into such an a$$hole...need advice

Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:01 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

I have been with Phil (my husby) for 15 YEARS.....I don't check his schitt and he don't check mine....you have to have BOUNDARIES....granted, even if he did check my phone....he would find NOTHING b/c I have nothing to hide.

To me, that goes both ways....a woman has no business going through her man's phone, wallet, etc.

Schitt is bound to come to light anyway....but Dedee refuses to go looking for anything....why should I? I can't control it....the only relationship/sex life I control with my husby is the one he has with me....just saying.

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

(deactivated member)
on 12/12/08 1:08 am

RNY on 10/02/08

I hear ya. But you gotta admit... (I know you don't but just go along with it for now ok huh?) Some women will do their dirt, cover their tracks, and sit around and act like nothing ever went on. But will, out of guilt I suspect, check out her man's every move and whatnot to see if he could be doing dirt also.

Now the very minute he accidentally goes into her purse when she's in another room, moves some of her stuff around in there by mistake, unzips one of the side pouches and finds her cell phone, turns it on, and checks her text messages he's wrong?!

C'mon now...

Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:11 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Well, hell he is LOL, but so is she.

That goes both ways.....and TRUST me when I tell you this.....women are good sneaks and you won't me say they don't SNEAK....b/c some women, just like some men do creep.

That is why every relationship should understand their boundaries!!!!!

It makes everything easier

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

(deactivated member)
on 12/12/08 1:16 am

RNY on 10/02/08

Personally, I'm for term limits in relationships and marriages.

Lavender
on 12/12/08 1:21 am - Northern, CA

^5....i tell hubby....you look for something trust me you will find it...im just sayin!!! go ahead look if you want to...i ain't explaining ****tttt....

all i can say is "HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS"

Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:23 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Bwahahaha, that is my big high yella sistah right dur LOL

b/c schitt ain't always like it seems ~okay~

No, this is not a blind pilot, though people thought it was....he was walking the dog of a blind passenger ROFLMAO

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

(deactivated member)
on 12/12/08 1:28 am

RNY on 10/02/08

See if I was your hubby I'd be confused as heyll over that one right there.

I wouldn't know if that statement meant :

1. You will start creepin' if I start looking at your cell phone. or 2. A dead mouse is caught in one of the traps down in the basement.

Lavender
on 12/12/08 1:34 am - Northern, CA

my point exactly....

..IF HE IS HANDLING his business after 19 yrs of marriage and his ****tt is tight...no need to check the celly......and if he does.....YEP he will find just what he is looking for

i don't check pockets for numbers when washing clothes...you feel me.....

i am an open book...you ask me a question....i will tell you MY TRUTH....you don't like it....oh well sounds like a personal problem to me

Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:42 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Now you sounds like Phil's sister versus my sister LOL

I called that joka yesterday and said "where are u" that asse responded "why?"

I'm like ~click~

He called back, "Baby, I did not mean it like that; I meant why, what do you need me to do!"

I'm like WHATEVA JIGGA! ~roll eyes~

Then he called me from home....to let me know he was at home....I sent his asse straight to voicemail and then texted him and told him the Doc office called and Kerri glasses are ready so he needs to pick them up

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

Lavender
on 12/12/08 1:50 am - Northern, CA

you know we kinfolk...some kinda way!!!

okay, picture this....hubby leaves out at 10 pm....sayin "ill be back" YOUR eldest nephew says "dad where you going this time of night"

Me: "don't be asking him where he is going? that is his business...

son: "well don't you want to know"

Me": "NOPE, sure don't"

so when I leave out at 2PM and come home uh say 4:00AM don't ask where i have been...im just sayin'

son: "well dang, let me leave that alone"

Me: "good idea"

Me: " Babe have a good evening" LMAOOOOO

his ass was back home in less than an hour....

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