I am so glad to know it's not just chicks that don't get it.....

You just got to be straight up and direct.  Say, look I am not feeling you.  You can't change that, you won't convince me of otherwise, even if you were the last woman on earth I wouldn't do you?  And if that doesn't work say "Biotch get the fugg on".

I have lots of homeys and when they listen to me it works!!!!  The problem is men lie, if you tell the truth you go further.

Also, a man can not be into a woman and still hit it which sends mixed signals.

So, what you're saying is he can't just be into her sexually, right?  Gotcha.

I think for men they can. Women can't separate the two.

Ok, I had to come out of lurking mode for dis one...

A woman can seperate the feelings. i had that one who was good in da bed and another one who had the tools but didnt know how to use it.. So when ever I wanted to be satisfied I would call the one who was da bomb..phew girl he could rock your world and leave you bowlegged for days.... mmm.. he had that good good... Oh, sorry I forgot myself on that one. We remained friends for years until he moved away but it was nothing but a booty call for me and him. We would dith whoever we were wit and meet each other beucase we knew that it was going to be good for both me n him. But we never had another tyes other the the XES.... Would see each other out with another person and was never no conflict.

So I must say we can have seperate personal, business and the XES....