MY MIND IS TRIPPIN!!
OK, i have about 11 days left to my new life! i am very excited but my mind have been tripping as to rather or not this is a good idea. I am thinking i am only in a size 22 and i dont really want to be SKINNY and i just want to lose about 100 pounds why am i going to this extreme???? but then in my mind i really feel like i am going to be MUCH HAPPIER, then i see everyones before and after pictures and i must say most of them are VERY VERY nice but then i see a lot where i tell myself this person does not look right after the surgery, this person is TOOOO SMALL. Then i read peoples profiles and it seems as though a LOT are pretty OBSESSED with the weight and are saying they need to lose more, when it CLEARLY doesnt look like they do. I am SOOOOO EXCITED and cant wait until my day, but then i keep saying WOW i DO NOT want to be too thin and look sick! would we be in control of our weight? like will we NOT be able to eat at all? what size will i be at? and if i wanted to stop losing, will i be able to? would i look OLDER? i have seen some people who has had this done look WAAAYYY much older than they are since the surgery. Would i have to wear make up to enhance my beauty or cover up my face because i look old now?.....lol! Hell, i dont wear make up like that i only wear lipstick sometimes, i dont even know how to put on make up!....lol my mind is seriously trippin out with these thoughts but i would like HONEST input.
HELPPPPP
.......LOL! IM EXCITED AND OK, BUT LIKE I SAID MY MIND IS TRIPPING AND I WANT SOME CLARITY AND HONEST ANSWERS. 
Welcome to your journey.....You are normal....it is normal to trip....first just breathe....relax.....take one day at a time. Everybody has a different journey......calm down dont worry about the small stuff....all the kinks will smooth out. just make sure you have all your ducks in a row. make sure you got a plan. may sure you have your support system in place. get all the hugs and kisses you can get. Be happy...smile picture yourself the way you want to see yourself. capture that picture and nothing else matters...Get to that place and you will be amazed how all of the "trippin" got you right to where you needed to go.
Much success to you on your journey you will do well. Just calm down.
Much success to you on your journey you will do well. Just calm down.
I feel you on this I will be looking at this post all day. I am a light weight like you but I have been trying to get to the 170-175 mark for yearssssssssssssssssssssssssss and only can get to 210 and end up gaining all the weight back. Im sick and tired of being tired. Lets get er done !!!!!!
ATL STAND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SEIZE THE MOMENT!! LIGHTS , CAMERA , ACTION
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PRE SURGICAL ANXIETY IS NORMAL AND AT 6 MOS. OUT AND STALLING WITH A VENGEANCE
I SAY SAVE THIS POST AND READ IT WHEN YOU HAVE A STALL...I'M LOVING LOSING BUT I DO GET ANXIOUS AND HAVE TO PRAY AND TAKE EACH DAY AS IT COMES!...YOU ARE GOING TO BE FINE AND CONGRATS ON YOUR DATE!
I SAY SAVE THIS POST AND READ IT WHEN YOU HAVE A STALL...I'M LOVING LOSING BUT I DO GET ANXIOUS AND HAVE TO PRAY AND TAKE EACH DAY AS IT COMES!...YOU ARE GOING TO BE FINE AND CONGRATS ON YOUR DATE! Success comes in CAN, Failure comes in CAN'T. Never say NEVER!
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