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Hello Eveyone, Now I am usually Lurker never get on the discussion board but definitely entertained by you guys on here. I had to get in on this one. I think many time's god opens our eyes by any means necessary. I have not been over weight my whole life. I guess I use to be what people call a snob. If  a guy did not fit a model I would look at him like are you serious do you see me?. As time moved on the weight plied on and the tables turn...LOL I was the one being looked at like are you serious fat girl..... It made me evaluate myself inside and out. The lord opened my eyes  to see that people are so much greater than there outer shell. That you must not  judge a partner by their looks but whats in their hearts how they treat you.. life always come full circle
so on that note be blessed every one and enjoy your day....

I am married now but when I was single I did'nt care if you were

150 pds or 510 pds. As long as you were a good man and

dressed nice!

Honestly --I am only attracted to bigger guys, my ex-hubby was not that big...but my ideal type of guy would be about 6'0- 6'2 and around 195-230 -- I tend to go after the picture of health. I have to admit I am NOT attracted to sloppy fat guys with meat hanging around their waist either...sorry.

Very thin men in this day scares the hell out of me especially with the AIDS epidemic ; I don't like to assume someone is a drug addict or sick..LOL..just my opinion.

PLEASE WHATEVER U DO DON'T GET IT TWISTED I HAVE SEEN THE BIGGEST BUFF CAT WIT THAT PACKAGE SO WEIGHT DAYUMMMMMMMMMM SURE DON'T MATTER.

^5...you're SOOOOOOOO correct HIV and AIDS do NOT descriminate on size, race, age. sexual preference or anything else!!!!!

Ok...I will clarify...I am only attracted to guys that I think are healthy looking...yea you are right -- you can't tell these days what ones health status is by looking..this is why I am going overseas seeking my new hubby to ensure he has not practiced any kinky stuff and that he is a damn near virgin or nerd....

Hi, my preference is usually that they just be taller than me.  I am 5'9 so I would prefer someone at least 3 inches or more taller.  Anyway, when I was heavy-er, I dated someone who was also heavy for 11 years.  Since I have lost the weight and we are not together any more, I would prefer someone a little more healthier.  I do NOT like skinty!  I just want them tall and healthy.  Now the funny thing is, I usually don't like the stomach thing, I don't like my fat stomach so I don't want to be slapping it with someone elses.  But I have recently met my "soul mate"..  He is 6'5 and carries his weight well.  However he does have a stomach.  Most times you can't notice it, but other times you can.  One good thing is, he is trying to get rid of it...  But even if he didn't, I'd still stay with him because who cares about a stomach if everything else is on point?

I'm married but back when I was dating I didn't care about a man's size.  If he was obese I just didn't want one who was sweating all the time.  Even though I was open to big men I never dated one because they always wanted a petite woman like a size 4 or 6.  I still remember the time a guy told me that he was big and didn't like big women and I was a size 12 at the time and too big for him.  For some reason slender men like me.  Now that the weight is dropping I'm getting double takes and men hollering at me again.  It feels good.

well I really would perfer a guy be taller then me but In my life time there are only 2  that were a little shorter then me that I have dated a little awkward but I did it. I dont mind a guy with some weight I dont discriminate in that sense . the guy I have been going out with is a teddy bear so he might be  a keeper.

The comment about the sweat was funny, because I got some of that in my eye last night.  Wresting w/ my bf.  He is a big guy 6'4, and about 340lbs.  But damn that **** was good.  And he can pack my around like a butterfly.