Piggyback on MiddleMan.... Would you date somebody who.......

It's a piggyback cause it's a conditional question - the weight was a condition to the dating question - I just asked about others - just not WLS related conditions........

LMAOOOOOO

..... was diagnosed with a terminal illness?

I wouldn't leave someone if I were already dating them, but I wouldn't begin a romantic relationship knowing that.

               .... if that illness was AIDS?

HELL NO

..... had a personal habit that was difficult to deal with in public (i.e. compulsive booger picking or scratching or some shiot like dat)

Depends on the habit.  The guy I'm dating now has some table habits that drive me batty-but we're working on it. 

..... was significantly shorter or taller than you?  Like at least 9 inches one way or the other?

I'm 5'3" and I I've dated guys over a foot taller than me.  Its not often I come across someone that makes me feel small, petite, ultra feminine.

..... was a lot older or younger than you?  10 years?  20 years?  more? (but not illegal, lol)

I doubt more than a 10 yr difference older would interest me at all, and I've never dated younger men, don't plan on starting now.

..... had a openly racist family - but they weren't racist?

No I think despite what people say their enviornment plays a HUGE part in preconceptions we have about others.

..... was formerly convicted of murder?  rape?  some other crime?

Not murder! If he defended himself and someone lost their life maybe dependent on the cir****tances. Rape-Oh hell no!  There's no way.  A non violent crime/white collar crime probably (can't be mad at a bruh trying to get ahead

..... who shared a view that is diametrically oppositional to one you hold sacred?  (i.e. Pro Choice dating a Pro-Lifer)

I think I could.  I'm pretty ok with agreeing to disagree about things

and LAST...........

could you date a porn star???? 
 

I'm not confident enough to go that route.  I'd constatntly be asking my man how I compared to others.  Not saying I couldn't experiment though, but not seriously date. 

Ok - I am not mad at you for the white collar distinction..... dats how I met my baby daddy........

whoops!!!  maybe you should rethink your position...... he and him ain't work out at all!!!! 

See you are wrong for that!

..... was diagnosed with a terminal illness? IF WE WERE ALREADY TOGETHHER.

               .... if that illness was AIDS? PROBABLY NOT...I WOULD BE A FRIEND BUT NOT DATE THEM...WHETHER CANCER OR AIDS.

..... had a personal habit that was difficult to deal with in public (i.e. compulsive booger picking or scratching or some shiot like dat) PROBABLY NOT...THE EXAMPLES ARE DISGUSTING...LOL

..... was significantly shorter or taller than you?  Like at least 9 inches one way or the other? MAYBE 9 INCHES TALLER BUT NOT SHORTER

..... was a lot older or younger than you?  10 years?  20 years?  more? (but not illegal, lol) I WOULD GO 10-15 OLDER...

..... had a openly racist family - but they weren't racist? SURE WOULD

..... was formerly convicted of murder?  rape?  some other crime? I HAVE DATED SOMEONE CONVICTED OF MURDER 3RD DEGREE (RELEASED FROM PRISON AND I KNEW ABOUT IT SINCE DAY ONE) BUT I WOULD NOT DATE SOMEONE CONVICTED OF RAPE...

..... who shared a view that is diametrically oppositional to one you hold sacred?  (i.e. Pro Choice dating a Pro-Lifer) PROBABLY SO...IF THEY RESPECTED MY VIEWS AND I RESPECTED THEIRS

and LAST...........

could you date a porn star????   PROBABLY NOT...I READ ABOUT THE PORN STARS WHO CONTRACTED HIV AND I COULD NOT HANDLE THAT

..... was diagnosed with a terminal illness?  Yes love doesn't exclude most terminal illnesses...see below.

               .... if that illness was AIDS?  No, sorry.  I'm the fan of 6 blood tests before no more condoms.

..... had a personal habit that was difficult to deal with in public (i.e. compulsive booger picking or scratching or some shiot like dat)  HELL NO!!  This applies to private also.

..... was significantly shorter or taller than you?  Like at least 9 inches one way or the other?  I am 5'4 (1/2) and dated a guy that was 6'6" or 6'7"...shorter I can't do.  I prefer you to be at least 6 ft. but am settling for 5'9" because he makes up for the 3 inches in all other facets.

..... was a lot older or younger than you?  10 years?  20 years?  more? (but not illegal, lol)  I can do younger but older...hell no!  In the words of Adam Sandler "Old balls, EWWWW!"

..... had a openly racist family - but they weren't racist?  Nope.

..... was formerly convicted of murder?  rape?  some other crime?  Minor other crimes yes...the big ones, nope.

..... who shared a view that is diametrically oppositional to one you hold sacred?  (i.e. Pro Choice dating a Pro-Lifer)  Nope, couldn't date a card-carrying Repukican but then I don't like old white men so I'm usually safe.

and LAST...........

could you date a porn star????    For a few dates, not long-term.