COMPLICATIONS

Nikkemo thanx.......I agree with you.  I just think she really didnt know what to say to me! and i think thats why i really didnt take it personal like that, but later on in the day it kind of bothered me that she said THAT rather than what she actually said.

I dont think she was hating (and that phrase is WAAAAAY overused...just cuz someone doesn't like something doesn't mean they are "hating")...but like Nikkemo said...that's just human nature...same thing for pregnancy---everyone wants to tell you their 29 hour labor story...just what ppl do. Shake it off and get ur mind right for surgery...dont take it personally.

Some people do have complications, some people cant ever eat certain things again, etc...but those are risks you know about already, and you've made your decision...so live with it and prepare in a positive manner!

First god bless on your surgery, It's been 2 weeks since my surgery and the people in my life i thought will be by my side are acting so difffernet towrds me. girl F** everyone else and do what you got to do to get your life back on track.