Male/Female privacy
BAF, my questions to you are:
1. Should men have a place to go where no women are allowed? We do, it's that loooong azz bucket we **** in at Stadiums, a women would never go near that thing. A urinal yes, but not that 8 foot Pee Basin. So that's where we can talk, but we never do....unless our team is winning.
2. Should women have a place to go where no men are allowed? They do, it's called Earth.
3. If a man came up in the beauty parlor/hair salon/whatever with his wife would women feel funny that he's in there? Depends on wether he's holding her purse and latte or not.
1. Should men have a place to go where no women are allowed? We do, it's that loooong azz bucket we **** in at Stadiums, a women would never go near that thing. A urinal yes, but not that 8 foot Pee Basin. So that's where we can talk, but we never do....unless our team is winning.
2. Should women have a place to go where no men are allowed? They do, it's called Earth.
3. If a man came up in the beauty parlor/hair salon/whatever with his wife would women feel funny that he's in there? Depends on wether he's holding her purse and latte or not.
First, let me say I have three sons, and when dad did not (Military) take them to the barber I did.
Second, I have know our barber for over ten years, therefore, I am helping pay HIS bills.
Third, I jump in and start any conversation I want up in there.......lol. with whomever I like. I pay the cost to be the boss........no really I feel that I have every right to go in there and be comfortable and treated like the next man. If they are talking about things I am clueless about (sports) I am out. The customers are cool I have never had a bad experience with joining in on conversations. Not sure, if it is a southern thing or not, we are all just hospitable here.
Places to go and bond, don't they have sports night, sports bars, strip clubs.
We have shopping sprees, girls night out, baby-showers, etc.
We love IT when men come into the shop, we always want a man's (not our own in this case) perspective on things. It is fun and entertaining, to see how honest and in some cases stupid people can be. One man brings his wife into the shop, tells the stylist what kind of style, he wants every time, she don't say anything, (yes she can talk). He does not leave her, just stands around looking all mad. I think maybe he does not want the shop talk(and it is hardcore) influencing his wife. I say this because, I say him out once at a club, all HAPPY drinking and dancing with other chicks. We are still trying to figure out if he is controlling or just that into her or ................
ETA: No he was not our next topic of the week, I have never told anyone until now.
Second, I have know our barber for over ten years, therefore, I am helping pay HIS bills.
Third, I jump in and start any conversation I want up in there.......lol. with whomever I like. I pay the cost to be the boss........no really I feel that I have every right to go in there and be comfortable and treated like the next man. If they are talking about things I am clueless about (sports) I am out. The customers are cool I have never had a bad experience with joining in on conversations. Not sure, if it is a southern thing or not, we are all just hospitable here.
Places to go and bond, don't they have sports night, sports bars, strip clubs.
We have shopping sprees, girls night out, baby-showers, etc.
We love IT when men come into the shop, we always want a man's (not our own in this case) perspective on things. It is fun and entertaining, to see how honest and in some cases stupid people can be. One man brings his wife into the shop, tells the stylist what kind of style, he wants every time, she don't say anything, (yes she can talk). He does not leave her, just stands around looking all mad. I think maybe he does not want the shop talk(and it is hardcore) influencing his wife. I say this because, I say him out once at a club, all HAPPY drinking and dancing with other chicks. We are still trying to figure out if he is controlling or just that into her or ................
ETA: No he was not our next topic of the week, I have never told anyone until now.
Post Date: 3/25/09 7:10 am
Now, ShowStopper, like I told Mahogany earlier, I normally don't respond to folks who don't have me on their friends list but since I'm in a good mood (That's the power of PineSol, Baby... Hmmmpf ) Imma let you slide this time. But like the (late) great poet and rapper ODB once said, "Whoa O, whoa O, whoa...!"
@ "I pay the cost to be the boss...."
You should feel every right to go in there but am I to assume that you are also saying you should go wherever a man goes simply because you're paying the cost to be the boss?