Male/Female privacy
Lavender
on 3/25/09 2:38 am - Northern, CA
on 3/25/09 2:38 am - Northern, CA
i take it the bbshop you go to is ran by men and there are NO female barbers?
the bbshop my son goes to has both men and women barbers so going there isn't uncomfortable
same with the hairsalons there are men stylist and no they are not all gay....so there is no separation..
maybe it is a cali thing don't know....
i went to a "sisterhood luncheon" this past weekend and being that was the title i assumed it was a gathering for just women, wrong....a few brothas showed up....to me i asked the question "why" but oh well, they were treated just the same. however, i don't think that i would attend a luncheon that was titled "brotherhood mens luncheon" but, hey that is my choice right? too each it own...
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
as far as women gathering together and there is cattiness that is so NOT the case...women gather together all over the world to make a difference and it doesn't end up with grown women at each others throat, gossiping, backstabbing and what not....so please look at it on a larger view and not lump all women in the same group.....woo wee let me get back to work
the bbshop my son goes to has both men and women barbers so going there isn't uncomfortable
same with the hairsalons there are men stylist and no they are not all gay....so there is no separation..
maybe it is a cali thing don't know....i went to a "sisterhood luncheon" this past weekend and being that was the title i assumed it was a gathering for just women, wrong....a few brothas showed up....to me i asked the question "why" but oh well, they were treated just the same. however, i don't think that i would attend a luncheon that was titled "brotherhood mens luncheon" but, hey that is my choice right? too each it own...
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
as far as women gathering together and there is cattiness that is so NOT the case...women gather together all over the world to make a difference and it doesn't end up with grown women at each others throat, gossiping, backstabbing and what not....so please look at it on a larger view and not lump all women in the same group.....woo wee let me get back to work
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take it the bbshop you go to is ran by men and there are NO female barbers?
Exactly.
the bbshop my son goes to has both men and women barbers so going there isn't uncomfortable
same with the hairsalons there are men stylist and no they are not all gay....so there is no separation..maybe it is a cali thing don't know....
Nah... They have shops like that out here. I know one down in PG County in Maryland that was that way. But the sisters were downstairs and the brothas were upstairs. Still a seperation though.
i went to a "sisterhood luncheon" this past weekend and being that was the title i assumed it was a gathering for just women, wrong....a few brothas showed up....to me i asked the question "why" but oh well, they were treated just the same. however, i don't think that i would attend a luncheon that was titled "brotherhood mens luncheon" but, hey that is my choice right? too each it own...
I went to a brotha hood lunch that had women. They stripped and gyrated, while we had lunch. It was great.
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
You must have magic powers or lots of money. Which is it?
as far as women gathering together and there is cattiness that is so NOT the case...women gather together all over the world to make a difference and it doesn't end up with grown women at each others throat, gossiping, backstabbing and what not....so please look at it on a larger view and not lump all women in the same group.....woo wee let me get back to work
Wait... wait... You forgot to get your horsey's parking ticket stamped.
Exactly.
the bbshop my son goes to has both men and women barbers so going there isn't uncomfortable
same with the hairsalons there are men stylist and no they are not all gay....so there is no separation..
maybe it is a cali thing don't know....Nah... They have shops like that out here. I know one down in PG County in Maryland that was that way. But the sisters were downstairs and the brothas were upstairs. Still a seperation though.
i went to a "sisterhood luncheon" this past weekend and being that was the title i assumed it was a gathering for just women, wrong....a few brothas showed up....to me i asked the question "why" but oh well, they were treated just the same. however, i don't think that i would attend a luncheon that was titled "brotherhood mens luncheon" but, hey that is my choice right? too each it own...
I went to a brotha hood lunch that had women. They stripped and gyrated, while we had lunch. It was great.
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
You must have magic powers or lots of money. Which is it?
as far as women gathering together and there is cattiness that is so NOT the case...women gather together all over the world to make a difference and it doesn't end up with grown women at each others throat, gossiping, backstabbing and what not....so please look at it on a larger view and not lump all women in the same group.....woo wee let me get back to work
Wait... wait... You forgot to get your horsey's parking ticket stamped.
Lavender
on 3/25/09 3:24 am - Northern, CA
on 3/25/09 3:24 am - Northern, CA
went to a "sisterhood luncheon" this past weekend and being that was the title i assumed it was a gathering for just women, wrong....a few brothas showed up....to me i asked the question "why" but oh well, they were treated just the same. however, i don't think that i would attend a luncheon that was titled "brotherhood mens luncheon" but, hey that is my choice right? too each it own...
I went to a brotha hood lunch that had women. They stripped and gyrated, while we had lunch. It was great.
was that suppose to be funny?
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
You must have magic powers or lots of money. Which is it?Neither, why would either have to do with me being comfortable with the situation that presents itself?
I went to a brotha hood lunch that had women. They stripped and gyrated, while we had lunch. It was great.
was that suppose to be funny?personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
You must have magic powers or lots of money. Which is it?Neither, why would either have to do with me being comfortable with the situation that presents itself?
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went to a brotha hood lunch that had women. They stripped and gyrated, while we had lunch. It was great.was that suppose to be funny?
Yeah - Brotha + hood + lunch... Oh just forget it... Let's just move on...
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
You must have magic powers or lots of money. Which is it?Neither, why would either have to do with me being comfortable with the situation that presents itself?
Now that you put it that way.
was that suppose to be funny?Yeah - Brotha + hood + lunch... Oh just forget it... Let's just move on...
personally, i make it comfortable wherever i go whether it is predominately women or men period.
You must have magic powers or lots of money. Which is it?Neither, why would either have to do with me being comfortable with the situation that presents itself?
Now that you put it that way.
BAF, my questions to you are:
1. Should men have a place to go where no women are allowed? Why or why not?
Yes we need our space.
2. Should women have a place to go where no men are allowed? Why or why not?
Same they need there space
3. If a man came up in the beauty parlor/hair salon/whatever with his wife would women feel funny that he's in there? Why or why not?
porbibley not
1. Should men have a place to go where no women are allowed? Why or why not?
Yes we need our space.
2. Should women have a place to go where no men are allowed? Why or why not?
Same they need there space
3. If a man came up in the beauty parlor/hair salon/whatever with his wife would women feel funny that he's in there? Why or why not?
porbibley not
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