OT-How long are you willing to wait???

I know one thing...if the car looks good but the engine don't run worth crap then I ain't buying the damn thing! I want to look at, test drive it, and then we can see what kinda warranty and **** comes with it

For me, sex is an important part of a relationship. So I'm gonna test it out when I WANT to test it out...I mean when *we* want to test it out

 Yeah because you don't want anything that won't start after you get it home.

Just my personal opinion it could be 3 days or 3 months whats the difference if he's going to respect you  he'll respect you regardless of when or if you have sex with him , and if I want to have sex with you on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd  night  that's because I'm either very horny, drunk or truly feeling you but that could change the next day.

and the key to what you are saying is that you hold no delusions that sex is going to lead you to a relationship in the end. Which I think is what Steve was referring to. I think what he was saying is if you give it up early then you run a high risk that he isn't going to take you seriously later.

I'm to old to be delusional where sex is concerned and one thing is you definitely can't build a relationship around  sex , because sex can be the boom but he can be dumb as a brick and there is no way you can hold a conversation with him at all, so I want the total package brains, body, bank & the booty if possible and if I'm feeling him and he's feeling me & we feel the time is right than it might just be going down and sometimes you have to be a risk taker .

AMEN to the 4 B's Brains, Body, Bank and Booty. I have to steal that.

it took me a year to give it up to my husband.  So I do not feel time has anything to do with it if he wants you and going to respect you.  Then he will do it regardless.  I say wait as long as your flesh allows.  It is better to marry than to burn with lust.  So as you can see I am a advocated for marriage.  If it is not going to end up in marraige I would not even think about giving it up in these day and ages.  I am trying to hold strong to my faith but I understand we are all human.  I would like to think I would wait but I am married and plan on staying married so I probably will never know. 

Guess you will just be mad

Umm not *me* cuz that ain't my style...I have my OWN way of doing things and it's working out very well

Each it own do you .