OT-How long are you willing to wait???
then you'd have to suddenly get a case of relationship gitters..."I'm just not ready for anything serious but we can be friends" 
On March 25, 2009 at 1:10 PM Pacific Time, Highly Favored wrote:
it took me a year to give it up to my husband. So I do not feel time has anything to do with it if he wants you and going to respect you. Then he will do it regardless. I say wait as long as your flesh allows. It is better to marry than to burn with lust. So as you can see I am a advocated for marriage. If it is not going to end up in marraige I would not even think about giving it up in these day and ages. I am trying to hold strong to my faith but I understand we are all human. I would like to think I would wait but I am married and plan on staying married so I probably will never know. Stay married if at all possible. I have no idea how old u are (probably younger than I am) but being single in your 40's in this day and age is no joke.. well, in some cases it its, but for the most part, its not.
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Give him 90 days if he is really into you and wants to be there then he'll wait. If you don't have nothing else that can keep him but some a$$ after he gets it then he's going to leave b/c guess what....that a$$ you gave him its a million and one other women out there trying to throw that thang his way. Sex can't sustain a relationship and if your in such a rush to give that thang up than to find out more about him and where he's trying to be then go ahead bu****ch after you've played your spade which is sex for some of yall then he's going to walk out the door to find another game to play.
You'll be left w/ a wet a$$ and a sore throat.....all b/c you didn't make him work for it.
That one night stuff works for someone but remember EVERYBODY don't when the lotto. So you can keep trying that mess if you want to and you'll continue to be left w/ that same wet a$$ and sore throat.
Nothing worth having is given up easily. So if I don't have to work for it and I can get it easily i'll never appreciate it nor even care to keep it.
Give him 90 days if he is really into you and wants to be there then he'll wait. If you don't have nothing else that can keep him but some a$$ after he gets it then he's going to leave b/c guess what....that a$$ you gave him its a million and one other women out there trying to throw that thang his way. Sex can't sustain a relationship and if your in such a rush to give that thang up than to find out more about him and where he's trying to be then go ahead bu****ch after you've played your spade which is sex for some of yall then he's going to walk out the door to find another game to play.
You'll be left w/ a wet a$$ and a sore throat.....all b/c you didn't make him work for it.
That one night stuff works for someone but remember EVERYBODY don't when the lotto. So you can keep trying that mess if you want to and you'll continue to be left w/ that same wet a$$ and sore throat.
Nothing worth having is given up easily. So if I don't have to work for it and I can get it easily i'll never appreciate it nor even care to keep it.
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