OMG, what is wrong with me?? Anxiety?

SleeveDiva !.
on 4/15/09 11:45 am - Catonsville, MD
You look great Ladybug, thank you for your advice!!

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Highest Weight: 345 Surgery Weight: 326  Goal: 160

                
Nia Prettyface
on 4/15/09 4:46 am - Southern States, NC


Yes, did all of that. Concentrate on being wheeled out of the operating room. I wanted to lie down on the stretcher and go get cut up. I would volunteer to do it today if I knew I would have the same results. 

I had an even greater anxiety of being morbidly obese. My HBP pills...all 3 prescriptions...gave me anxiety. Sleep apnea gave me anxiety. Shopping gave me anxiety. Being short winded gave me anxiety. Making sure I did not have an odor gave me anxiety...

At least the surgery anxiety was time sensitive. Until I lost weight, all of the other stuff would continue.

 

 It takes a lifetime for man to master the art of living, but living is much easier when he accepts God as his master. 



SleeveDiva !.
on 4/15/09 11:47 am - Catonsville, MD
Nia, what you are saying makes a lot of sense, I have anxiety about all those things now.

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Highest Weight: 345 Surgery Weight: 326  Goal: 160

                
Krayzsexykool
on 4/15/09 5:00 am - Douglasville, GA
I just decided and I'm freaking out. No surgeon, just 1 seminar so far. I've been told it's normal. I think when I get the date, I'll reallly freak out. But I have reasons for that...

But like one poster said (Nia, I think?) the obesity gives anxiety.  I'm tired of this personally.  Tired of being scared to live, staying home, being down on me.  I want my life back!!!  
I have an @$$h*le, therefore I have an opinion. or two... or forty.

    
SleeveDiva !.
on 4/15/09 11:47 am - Catonsville, MD
I'm with you on that, I want my life back too! thanks for responding!!

www.youtube.com/misskolie1 
 

Highest Weight: 345 Surgery Weight: 326  Goal: 160

                
MarloT
on 4/15/09 6:07 am
VSG on 12/20/07 with
:backhug: 

it's normal.

i started to chew gum faster, i'd wake up with acne (and i never break out) got real forgetful b/c my mind was racing all the time.  it's normal.  not to sound church-church-churchy but what honestly stopped it in its tracks was talking to God about it.  for real gurl, the MOMENT i told him i was scared about a/b/c/d and He told me (LOL!):  look, you wudn never in control of it no way, but for the record, i gotchu.  i didn't lose one more minute's sleep.  it's human to be scared
but i betcha fighdollas you don't have a thing to worry about.  
                                  be happy, laughter burns calories

 

SleeveDiva !.
on 4/15/09 11:49 am - Catonsville, MD
I can do five dollas! lol Thank you MarloT, I really appreciate the advice, and yes, I need to and will be talking to God more, only He can direct me where I should go and give me that peace!

www.youtube.com/misskolie1 
 

Highest Weight: 345 Surgery Weight: 326  Goal: 160

                
(deactivated member)
on 4/15/09 1:09 pm - Baltimore, MD
the fact that you have a 6 month program to complete before approval is a good thing. that gives you time to come to grips with your decision and to really make sure you're sure.

i like the fact that you can't just diddy bop into a doctor's office on a monday and say 'yo doc, i'm a little chubby can you handle this?"  and the the doc says "sure, come in on wednesday and i'll handle that"

the approval process gives you the time you need to wrap your brain around this very life altering decision.
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