BAF Brethren - I have a question......

I turned 40 in October of last year.  It was sort of a rebirth in a sense for me cause I had WLS in early October and my real birthday came in late October. 

If anything I tripped on and sometimes still do even to this day is how do you dress as a brotha at 40.  A fresh t-shirt, baggy jeans, and Tims, with ya hat to the side just don't seem to get it when you got more grey hairs in your goatee than an actual goat.  And tryin to rock khaki pleated Dockers and a crisp Polo shirt does not say, "HOOD" at all when you're looking for a fish sammich and a haircut in a new town.

Other than that 40's cool.  

I AINT 40- YET BUT WHEN I DO TURN THAT AGE I HOPE I DONT FEEL LIKE YOUR HUBBY FEELS. I FEEL LIKE I HAVE MADE GOOD ACCOMPLISHMENT EARLY IN MY LIFE , I JUST PRAY THAT THEY CONTINUE WITH GOOD HEALTH.