SPEAK ON IT: How do you view other obese people?

I think I thought of this after reading the airline posts...

Am I alone in this, or, when you were fat/ still are, do you also do this:

Example: I'm in the seminar and this chic behind me didn't catch her breathe for 30 minutes. I mean loud. And talking loud. So I peeked behind me. I'm thinking if this fat b****  don't shut the eff up, I'll gonna smack her!

Or, I'll be somewhere and I'm like look @ this fat thus and so...

Then I remember: BYTCH, YOU'RE FAT TOO! Then I'm angry, pissed, sad, remorseful, whatever.  Don't know if it's b/c it's usually people bigger than me or who I perceive to be bigger.

What's your thoughts?

Rhonda is not at work today - I don't have a chauffer to bring the caddy around to block bullets if I posted what I REALLY think - so Imma grab this chair and...........




LOL!!!!!! 

Do you remember the last time I started a thread on this subject? 


I'm out!

LMAOOOOO - chile DO I remember!!!!! 

Hold the door - I'm running RIGHT behind you!!!! 

Usually when I see an obese person, like really obese, I feel really bad for them, but I don't go up to them like a commercial trying to sell WLS. Lol!

Now, there have been several times when I would be out in traffic and I will see an obese person eating at a fast food joint and just be like (in my mind), "now you know better than that shiot!" Or, I will see an obese woman with some tiny ass clothes on and I just be like, WTF is that??? I have to confess that I was that way when I was heavier too. Lol! Now that I'm not over weight I feel really bad for them because even being 20 or 30 pds overweight is still hard on the heart, joints and other organs.

~Catt~

Well I'm going to be half crazy and touch it!  

I feel you KSC, I think why not get surgery obviosuly you need help with your weight then do something about it. I have a big mouth so I ask them or I mention I had surgery. Most people want WLS but are afraid. I think sit your big a** down be quiet and shut up.

But my patience is thin with loud overweight people. But I try not to forget from whence I came from. I'm a reformed FAT GIRL!

Duck Adrienne Run!!

LMAO @ Then I remember: BYTCH, YOU'RE FAT TOO!   gurl you'se a mess! 

view em sympathetically UNLESS they're doing something i find incredibly annoying - but that ain't about fat it's the same way i'd react to any one of the orangutans getting on my nerves: 

short dude on the train:   if this midget-@## muddasucca don't quit poppin that gum

bonquiqui talkin on SPEAKER on the bleep phone.

the attitudy bus driver

whatever the problem is, weight is the secondary issue for me - i'll say you midgetass bysh or you funkyass bysh or you loudass bych in minute but the fat thing is an afterthought.   it actually only bothers me cuz i'm nuts about boundaries so if i can *feel* a hamhock slowly increasing presha on my thigh or arm, especially in the summer, i get real coo-coo-for-cocoa puffs.  keep it in your seat.

Okay Marlo u da crazy one gurrrrl! LMAO! Anyone wearing clothes meant for an infant and they azzez is grown still gon make me be like, "WTF is goin on up in here????" Lol! But I feel you on "the fat being secondary" to stupid, ignorant, loud, trifling, no manners havin azz folk.

Hugs!

~Catt~

gurl i hadda let that go cuz skinny chicks do this ALL the time.  if you're a size 10 dammit be a 10, don't be a fluffy ass 8 and think we won't notice.

How do I see obese people?  Hmmmm...

It really depends on how I'm feeling at the time to be honest with ya.  For example,

If I see a heavy-set male (black or white) who has an extraordinarily huge belly and a pair of skinny legs, then I'd think to myself, he's just a blue-collar worker who works outdoors a lot and just doesn't know the meaning of a salad instead of meat and potatoes.  But if he ****** me off for the slightest reason then I'm like, "You fat bastid, how dare you..."

If I see a heavy-set woman (black or white) with a lot of curves, neatly dressed, chillin like she knows she got the goods then I'm like, "Aiight then...  Handle your business, Baby!"

If I see a whale of a gal (black or white) looking like she's just in her own way when she slides her fat feet from side to side as she makes her way down the aisles at Wal-Mart all while leaning on her shopping cart for support; food and drink stains all over her dingy ass white t-shirt, draggin her purse across her upper and lower bellies, then I think to myself, "She'd better hope and pray that she doesn't do anything to offend me cause I'll stand in this damn store and do stand-up comedy on her ass so hard until she'll use those pudgy little stubs she calls fingers and call the cops herself on my blacque ass."

But like I said before it really depends.