SPEAK ON IT: How do you view other obese people?

 I'm not gonna lie sometimes i do that and i know it's  wrong but at the same time it just come out that way. but i dont feel bad about it.. thats how i'm feeling at that time... ok i go to a lot off BBW parties out here in nyc and i know is for all the women to come out and shine and feel good about the size they are, but then u have these's sista's that come in and knowing damn well they should not have left the house with every last roll, or fat back coming out there outfit .. and thats real talk ! it's one thing to think very high of urself.. but come on we all know  betta not to have all our rolls hanging out.. then the sad part is that the ppl they come with to the party dont tell them how they really look ! maybe it's 2 spare there feeling's or they wanna laught behind there back at the party.  idk.. but bein the person that i'am if u my ppl's and we rock hard together then i'm gonna tell u if it's a good look or not. cause if i'm not stepping out rite my true blue friends would tell me and not see me out there making a fool of myself . 
 lol i know i might have got off the subject alittle but seeing a BBW sista that wears a size 26 and she is in a outfit thats a size 10 will make me say look at that fat B... she look's stink !  and i know we all have done it one time our another..
all be well and blessed !


~~ChynnaBlaque~~

HIGH 5!!!

girl, if It shows 1/2 a roll, it ain't going on my arse! LOL.

Well...lets see now... Whenever I see an obese person...I feel really sad...because I just project my own feelings about how miserable they must be. And it really perplexes me because I know that there are some really large people with very high self esteem.and they are not miserable at all..or so it seems on the outside.  I am sometimes envious that I did not have that same level of self esteem when I was much heavier.  I mean...I did not and still don't like showing my arms....even though I feel a 100% better about myself...I am still self conscious about somethings....granted my WLS was for health reason and not vanity....I guess this still plays a part.

Now the thing that really annoys me about some big people is that they will walk around smelling horrible....won't wash their azzes. Now I know that this can be a sign of depression or it can be a sign that their arms are too short and they just can't reach far enough up there to clean that shiot out....however sometimes I do think its a matter of being lazy.

As long as they don't infringe on my olfactory sense...I really don't think much about it...I just thank God that I am no longer in that place. If nothing else...its a reality check (my favorite words if you haven't guess already) for me....don't want to go back to that condition. 

 @ won't wash their azzes

MD I was in walmart one time and there was this woman who was so large she needed the scooter to get around....I got within say 4ft of her and I swear her body oder was horriable...she had another lady with her who seemed like she may have been this womans health aid ...anywayI felt so bad for her cause I felt like she probably couldnt take care of herself well and that the person that was with her let her go out the house like that.

Yeh...thats just wrong...when you are depending on someone and they don't do what they are suppose to do...you reap what you sow...that person may find themselves in her shoes one day...helpless.....its them lazy...azz...I don't feel like taking the time to step a foot in the shower bamas that I am talking about. 

I sat next to a girl that smelled, ummm... sour.  I'm glad there was a chair between us, but dang!  Her hair was all matted like it hadn't see a comb in a week.

I have a lady in my office who wheezes (whether sitting or walking) and I SWEAR I just wanna pull her to side and talk to her about WLS, but I don't want to come across as rude.

I've worked here for years, so people who knew the old me and now see the new me, will ask how I lost the weight.  Most of them are overweight, so I will tell them how I did it in the hopes that it will spark the interest for themselves.

But....ooooh, I can't stand to see somebody in too tight pants, shirt buttons holding on for dear life and 300+ pounds stuffed into some peep-toe stilettos.  You know they suffering!

There's an assistant pastor at my church that's kinda like that.  He's about 6',6"; 480 or so; has a barrel for a chest/belly combo and his suit jacket pants look really tight on him.  His arms look like they can only go but so high or he'll rip his jacket so he never waves back to people who wave to him first.  Now I don't know the guy personally.  All I know is that he and I go to the same church.  I want to talk to him about WLS soooo badly, but I figured that just ain't my call right there so I don't.