MY QUESTION WASSSSSSSSSSSS

Girl, we get more than half of our stomach chopped off, so that bad boy is swole for a minute. At about 3 months I started eating waaay more different stuff. I left a few things off my list that wouldn't have been good for her. I ate a lot of fatty soups, made my shakes with half and half, lots of fried fish. No point in listing all my fatty stuff I could eat. But as far as carbs.......nah not for the kid. I tried to keep my carbs below 50 back then. I didn't eat any potatoes, pasta rice or bread till about 4 months, and even still its Dreamfields pasta, low carb bread, and brown rice.

WELL, Let me just say... That ya'll can be MEAN to folks... What you all call constructive criticism may be very offensive to folks... RO... I so agree with you about folks wanting to hear all the GOOD GOOD ISH... But sometimes... in her defense...  It is the presentation that is given...

I remember when I first came on board... Let me not even go there... but it wasn't very pretty... I thought folks hated me... I wanted to stop blogging and everything because of some of the **** the VETS would say and do... I thought all ya'll were full of **** A bunch of *****es who lost weight and thought they were better than everybody else... But is that what we want folks to think about us?  I know I don't... All of ya'll are beautiful woman... She did ask a question and she did come back HARSH... She put on her defense clothes... I remember doing the same thang... It took some VETS to e-mail me on the backline and tell me to dust that ish off... That's what I did...
NOW... I'm cool with everybody... I THINK!!! LOL... I don't want nobody to take what I'm saying the wrong way PLEASE don't...

Meekie... YOUR PRESENTATION WAS ****** UP TOO... You already had one thread going and to start another one and then hit sis with the, "if he shoe fits"..... Wooooooooooooooooooo...
Did you really think you were making the situation any better...

This is a place of support... But we need to watch how we handling mojo before we can ask them to watch what they hell they saying to us... You will learn that folks don't give a damn if you eat 29 PIZZA by yo damn self and hold them all down... That would be on yo ass...

Be HAPPY that you even have a place to come and get real answers... RO RO ain't going to short cut **** for you... YOU AIN'T paying her bills... 

KNOW when you ask a question next time... be ready for some real answers... SUGA COATED is not allowed in BAF...

1. I ate some peach pie... Will I dump? Was that dumb of me?  HELL YEA ***** YOU CRAZY?
2. I gain 5 pounds... I didn't excerise at all this week... What should I do? PUT THE POTATO CHIP BAG DOWN... GET YO FAT ASS OFF THE COUCH AND JUST WALK...
3. I'm eating all the wrong foods, what should I do?  NOTHING BABY... KEEP EATING WHAT YOU WANT TO... YOU'LL BE FIND...

Do you want  truthful answers? Or do you want us to give you a number 3 answer?

We love you sis and we want to help... But know that we going to give it to you straight...
BAF IS A PLACE FOR NO *****ASSNESS...
EVEN THOUGH WE *****ES...

 well said

Goddamnit Vonda - you are MY nicca if you don't NEVA EVA get no bigga!!!!!

you broke that **** down REAL good right thur!!!!  hell - I remember MY newbie days - **** - I coulda swore mofos hated me too!!!  but hell - I listened to that **** learned from that **** GREW from that **** - and now - well - the proof is in my pcis.... HARD ass face and ALL!!!! 

We haze all newbies in this mofo - we oughta start branding BAF letters on folk!!!! LMAOOOO

naw for reals - you broke it down nice man......

That's real... I know she feels attacked right now... but she did bring that on herself... I remember doing the same **** I said something, then somebody else said something, then I was like HELL NAWL... bunk that... Then it went to a place where it didn't have any place going... One person that could've helped me with some **** is now someone that I'm blocked from...  Some **** we bring on ourselves... BUT WE LEARN FROM THEM...

She cool peoples though and I hope she understand that Ro Ro was really trying to help her...  She did give her some good ****
((((Meekie))))  Come on back out... Take this BEAT DOWN but learn from it... WE here with you and for you... WE were all 2 months out at some point... HELL I couldn't get chicken... HELL I couldn't eat 3/4 of what you named...  I've done well by the grace of GOD and I've learned looking at Ro Ro, Mack Mama, Mrs. Rhonda and Baby Phat... all of them...

Ro Ro can get on your last nerve with some **** she may say... BUT CHECK OUT her SUCCESS!!! She looks great!!!

On the nerve?? WTF??? Well you gettin' on my nerves right now!

No you didn't say that....I am an angel around these parts!

LOL... HELL I said it... LMAO... You are in ANGEL... LOL

hole up...hole up..hole up....I am going to stand firm when I say....MY PRESENTATION WAS NOT ****** UP!! I feel like I didn't come across as rude or anything...I simply just asked a question

I feel what you are saying but at the same time...I didn't tell her no differently than I would tell the next mofo....she took it way deeper than it was..out of guilt I imagine..but that is HER shiot..and she got mad because she got called on it.

Best believe this is the last time you see Ro answering on of those questions..BAF folks done got wayyyy to sensitive for me to deal with

See you are part of the reason why I and many other Old Heads don't bother giving out advice anymore on BAF...some of you new folks are too ****** sensitive...
That may have been TOO STRONG FOR HER... NOW somebody like me...  I can take that... I know you... I know you the type of woman that will say what the hell you feel... YOU HAVE THAT RIGHT...

She posted a question... YOU GAVE IT TO HER STRAIGHT...   I have no problem with that... I feel that if someone post something then they want the truth... If they didn't then they wouldn't post...

She did open that door... She did start another thread in which you had a right to go there...

When it comes to talking to folks it is the presentation that you give... I'm not just talking about this post... I'm speaking in general... She made you go there... I agree with you on that...

We just gotta do betta...

Why are you feeling a need to nurse this girls wounds?? She started this post so it is obvious to me she can handle herself... no need for you to downplay and explain my actions in order to hold her hand and make her feel better about starting this post...I'm sayin' look at the title of this post..."MY QUESTION WASSSSSS" like we ******' stupid or something

I don't feel sorry for her AT ALL...and I don't take back anything I said! Sad part is this was my first WLS post I have posted to in a long time...LOL...now I remember why I don't bother anymore