BAF HAS LOST IT....YET AGAIN!

hmmm - let's see you joined in 03..... hell - New Edition ain't been the same since Bobby left either! 

sorry - that was funny to me.  you came before my time, so I have no point of reference in regard to your view.

Thanks Hershey,
I remember when I first came to BAF and would ask what I guess are the typical newbie questions and the response would be so low, but when there is some OT stuff going on the responses or overwhelming. 

As a newbie you are scared that you will be that one person who the surgery fails and you are just looking for some type of confirmation that what you are experiencing is typical.

Half the time I'm hesitant to participate because of the backlash.

Now, come on Hugga - are you planning to post some ish like 'my question WASSSSSS' - meaning I ain't ask you for any OTHER feedback or opinion so just answer my question the way I want! 

OR

If you DO get a response that has you like WTF?  are you going to assume your take on it is the intent and then post some ill ish right back - not even take the time to say ' Dude - what did you mean by that?'  - you making it sound like the vets are just randomly telling newbies to blow smoke up their azz...........

now - you post some 'hey - I just made love to a candy bar, am I wrong?' and if you are 4 weeks out - yea - we gon be like HELL YEA - get the sugar outcha hands now, Lamont - you big DUMMY!'  because WE are over here with 3 or 4 candy bars our DAYUM SELF tryna get down off the ledge

see how that's different?

lmao I know what you mean Mack,

Some of the questions are just common sense, things that one should have known prior to having the surgery. 

If I ever post some common sense ish give it to me raw mack. lol

Might I add that I appreciate that you are one of the vets who I have come to depend on to respond to the newbie posts

See - YOU get that the spirit of US is help - the blowback in these recent situations doesn't reflect that.

*I* just got blown off the block last week or so for some FOUL AZZ ish from a newbie - so I totally FEEL Ro and her reaction. 

BUT - I have and WILL keep replying SAME as always - you KNOW Imma do me all day baby!!! 

It's always said that the board is nothing like it used to be. The posters control the dynamics of the board. I found BAF on my second day on OH. I introduced myself and read the posts for several days. 

If people want sunshine and rainbows blown up their behinds, they should state that at the beginning. BAF is all about cycles. That's it. That's all. This too shall pass. 

What someone can do is put a sticky at the top of the board with FAQ's. I'm not volunteering myself because my 4 or 5 jobs (it varies) won't allow me the time.

P.S. Sometimes your specific surgery board may be more helpful if you're asking general questions.

If people want sunshine and rainbows blown up their behinds, they should state that at the beginning. 


If YOU would just start working YOUR BAND you would get sunshine and rainbows too--

How are you my fave band drinkin' sister???

Hey Tonya. I tried to get a damn fill and it was too tight. I can't go over 3 cc's. WTF???!!! It's all on me from here on out.     

You know I was joking right?      (you know WHO I was referring too.)

I keep a loose fill because I don't tolerate much.  I was at 2.8 forever thinking I had more.  People knock it all day long but that's why I am still drinking protien.  I have to get over 80 g to lose with this band and the only way I can do that is with liquid supplements.

I also have to cut out all the whites (flour, sugar, bread, etc.) and no liquor.  This band is no joke!!

I know sis. I'll try upping the protein. Notice I did not say that I'll delete the liquor. LOL