Warning - Drama Post

All I'm suggesting is reply in kind.  if a person comes back sideways after asking a question, one can either ignore the effed up reply or keep it going. 

I have in the past done both..I ain't proud of going back and forth with certain people on here, but I did...immature, I think, for sure, but I did it. 

I said that to say that even if the reply is harsh/nice, maybe that has more to do with the person who is making the comment and where THEY are coming from. 

I remember the instance when I got jumped on in here and for awhile was a bit gun-shy.   My thing was, eventually to say to myself just deal with this like I would in real life.  I pick my responses based on how the person comes at me and will also chose whether to deal with them on the backline or the front; whether to escalate it or not. 

Dang D I have been agreeing with you all day. Something has got to give  Its just unnatural

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Uh yeah, Andrea.  That's scary!  lol

Here is what I wrote

Wow some of yawl are some grubbin' folks! 2 months I didn't even THINK about eating that stuff

I have to ask why are you trying these things in the first place? Why are you trying to sabotage your WLS already?

I lived on Wendy's chili, Protein shakes, pinapple and cottage cheese

eta: I am almost 3 years out and I can't even mess with chicken alfredo, don't know how you are pulling off pasta and rice

 

Hmmmm no *****es....where is the harm in that? Seriously how else could I have put this being the person I am?!

LOL,  I was thinking the same dam thing.

Even though you got jumped at too?

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Hey, Lee, What's up, lady? 

The responses one might get may very well depend on the ask. In some ways, there is a fine line between asking for support and asking for a scolding. While some people may respond better to coddling, some may respond better to a "spankin".

Should an "I'm learning question" get handled with kid gloves or the cold hard truth (as perceived by YOUR individual journey)?

Should an "I ****** up" get understanding (since many of us have at some point) or a beat down?

It's hard to make that call sometimes if you don't know your audience.