Warning - Drama Post

Hi Cookie,
Do I get a pass for being on the journey for 5 years? I give myself a swift kick in the azz for my *****ups.
I am a semi-perfectionist but I swear that I have some legit excuses for the stalls.
But I am kicking butt with my weightloss, spinning,  WW and changing up my food intake.

In my opinion NEITHER should get a pass. 

I responded to Treena post WITHOUT sugar-coating my opinion. My thing is whether you or NEW or an OLDER poster, be prepared for people OPINIONS whether it be negative OR positive.

In my seven years of posting on Obesity Help I NEVER ask anyone for their opinion, I pretty much either a) call my doctor b) look it up on the Internet. I am also the same in my everyday, that way I won't be pissed my someones opinion.

edited to add: I hate speaking in riddles I like to include names.. The newbie (can't think of her name) post a question and receive some great answers, HOWEVER, she started a NEW POST to bash those who didn't say what she THOUGHT they should have said.

GM, Rhonda.

How are the pads holding up, sweetie. 

(((inserting middle finger))), pads are on retirement the extra weight I have gained have spilled in the "deflated" spots.

(((((licking / kissing Rhonda's middle finger)))).

lol. How are things otherwise, lady? 

I tried to go back and find your inital response to Treena.  It went something like "one day at a time."  

Wondering would you have responded like that to the newbie (I can't think of her name either)?

....and speaking of starting a new post.....I didn't see anybody bash ATL DIVA for starting a new post ON THE SAME SUBJECT???!!?

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Okayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Meekie_09 you were the one who did the post and came back with a FOLLOW-UP post, couldn't remember you until now.

This my response to Treena YESTERDAY..

Post Date: 4/21/09 7:48 am
Treena!!!!! Treena!!! WTH?????

Okay since you want me to shoot straight from the hip here goes..............

How the hell did you GAIN 40 pounds???

Surely, you had some indication if not on a scale then at least in your clothes!! Yes I have gained "25" pounds from all-time lowest and have lost 6 of those thus far, and will lose at least 15 more pounds. HOWEVER, It wasn't like I was shocked when I saw the scale.

You not only had surgery ONCE but TWICE. Believe it or not you really SHOULD be on the board everyday as a testimony for the newbies how easy it is to gain weight back, after that wonderful year of weight falling off with little effort!!

It is NEVER to late to go back to the basics, heck if you need to go to the doctor and get you some 'assistance" drugs, like I did. I do not plan on staying on drugs however I am training my body once again to ONLY eat good things. No sugar, no fried foods and very little if no bread.

Nobody can make you eat right or exercise YOU have to do it yourself, and take it one day at a time.