Warning - Drama Post

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 4/22/09 1:39 am
LOL!!!  No blast from me!  i'm just playing devil's advocate.....   LOL!!! 

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 4/22/09 12:30 am
^5!  If Treena hada said ANYTHING 'bucking up' to any response she got - it woulda been ON and POPPIN.............

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Dalexis
on 4/22/09 12:32 am - Brooklyn, NY
Hi, Kim

Yes, it IS major to admit to screwing up after having been at this journey for some time, but isnt' it just as major for a newbie who is seeking help? 

I mean, I know you mentioned "...a vet or newbie" and yes, u weren't one of those cruxifying the newbie, but I saw there were some who were quite vicious with their comments toward the newbies.  And not just the recent ones, either.

There is this thing where people look at the questions being asked by newbies as "the same questiions / situations ..." being posted over and over again.  What some vets seemingly fail to realize is that while its old news to someone who has been here for 7 years or even 2 years its new to the new person.

As a new person, I watch the way others were jumped on in here and decided to look for my info elsewhere.   However, when I did start to offer suggestions and help, my think is to talk to a newbie the way I would want to be spoken..especially if the person speaking to me didn't know me from a hole in the wall. 

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Kim B.
on 4/22/09 12:45 am - OH
Ok Dwayne....Imma say this, and then I will be done with it.  ****TO ME***  the newbie thing was not about questioning things over and over, it was about her getting mad that she didn't get the responses that she wanted to here.

I did not go back and re-read it, but I think she was questioning her food choices or amounts or something.  The response that we all are tiptoeing around is Ro's response asking her why she was sabatoging herself.  It's JUST a question people!  What was so wrong with it besides the fact that she answered a question with a question? 

And before anyone says it....YES Ro is my friend , and NO I am not just defending her because of it.  We all know what made us fat, we know what we should and should not eat.  It's not like this is rocket science.

I'm sorry if some don't agree with me on this but ......oh well.

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Jus ChanJ N ME
on 4/22/09 12:49 am
Ro is your friend?

OMG, I am about to disassociate myself with you Kim..

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Jus ChanJ N ME
on 4/22/09 12:25 am, edited 4/22/09 12:26 am
Cookie:

I have one question for you. Why in your initial post did you talked in riddles?  You clearly were talking about me but you didnt mention my name.  And this is not the first time you have done this.  What is this really about sweetie?

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on 4/22/09 12:28 am - Georgia Peach, MD
I don't talk in riddles.

I was asking a generic question. 

I'm not talking about you, more your "vet" status and the response you got versus the response Meekie got. 

You can make it be about more if you want.  It's cool.
Jus ChanJ N ME
on 4/22/09 12:34 am
Not trying to make it more than what it is, just wondering why you didnt say, Treena the vet and Meekie the newbie....

I'm just curious because I remember another post that you put up that was particularly concerning me and you put it up without putting names and you were talking specifically about me.  I dont mind being used as an example and my name being put on blast, but do it strait up with me....

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ktjajj
on 4/22/09 12:34 am - Buffalo, NY
Cookie plain and simple it was wrong. As Cosby would say they served steak on a dirty garbage can lid. Meaning what they had to say was good but the presentation was f*cked up. That is why I will NEVER post a wls question on BAF. Because this has not been the first time this has been done and it won't be the last. This is typical BAF behavior. We are all on here trying to make it on this journey. It is not easy to change behaviors overnight. I don't care if you are one day out or 5 years out. Same struggle (as Ro Ro's post yesterday is proof of, everybody was confessing). There is nothing encouraging about a post saying that newbies are young and immature. There is nothing encouraging about saying new ones coming out need revisions quicker. It was wrong plain and simple.
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Dalexis
on 4/22/09 12:37 am - Brooklyn, NY
What's up, Andrea.

Its kinda sad that you feel uncomfortable posting a wls question here, for I thought that is what this place was for. 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

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