Calling out Dalexis, Birdman D and any other man that cares to answer

Point taken...different perceptions...no sabatage intended....message deleted as requested (honestly I had waited for them to be deleted...but when I got no response thats when I posted). Thanks for helping me come to a resolution..(In the name of communication...you know)....again I was merely curious as to what you were thinking at the time... Question answered.  Have a good one.    

"merely curious"???   really???  i honestly believe if "merely" was the opt word.............i believe you would have asked me on the B/L...... instead of "calling" me out...on the F/L.................IMO..............

My apologies....I don't use the BL that often...it was not a first thought...in the future I will be more sensitive as well with where I post. I really was not trying to start more drama...which is how I am sure this is going to be perceived.  I just wanted some feedback in general from the men about all the pics, sex etc... I see that I made more out of it then was there. Of course, how you going to know if you don't ask the question. 

...i'm just glad that..................."With God All Things Are Possible"

...love you in the LORD...

love you in the LORD too...

Okay MD, I let that go on that other post...only because * I * was tired of that mess.  But now I'm just curious ... is this post an example of how you over-think things? 

I thought it was funny and really not this serious.  To conclude that we may be viewed as sex objects from that ongoing mud wrestling joke is a bit of a stretch...IMO

This post is a yet another branch from the earlier post...yet you tell me to let it go   OKAY!

Hi Kim B,

No...I honestly took it to heart because I personally.(don't know about others)...was in my mind paying homage to people who have not made it on this journey.... Yes....Perhaps...I overthought it...and made more of out of it then was there....but again...I just did not know....which is the reason I asked the question... Now I can now admit that I went about it the wrong way...still living...still learning. I am letting it go too.  Thanks Kim.

P.S.  you can also read my reply to D above about the sex issue...was not really based on this post alone....but again....what some see as fun....I sort of see as offensive...but thats just me...I have a very disturbing past ...so I have to keep this in mind...that this is a sensitive area for me.  And I also need to keep in  mind that people can post whatever they want...whether..you start the post or not...since there really are no rules.   

I really do not know what this is all about but we all need to remember that this is the Internet. We do not know each other so we would not know what discussion areas are sensitive to you.  No, men are not only about sex. If someone makes a comment or post with a sexual suggestion, I should feel comfortable in making a respond that may contain a sexual hint without offending that person. Sometimes discussions sometimes get heated and a humorous statement may cool down emotions. We are only connected by our need to lose weight and the choices that we will or have made on this issue.

Coolbreeze 

Thanks Coolbreeze....you really just reiterrated what I had said in my previous message. Thanks for sharing.