OT - I gotta know... Is it just me?

 Hey!!! I am definately not a lurker but I am considering becoming one

Don't do that.  I was just kidding.  Seriously, I was just joking.

Hmmmmm...I guess I never gave that too much thought.  I do try to keep in touch with those I've got a rapport with.  When time permits, I look through my list and contact those I haven't seen on the board in awhile.  I send a little note to let them know I was thinking about them.  I used to do it more than I do now. 

Spring cleaning sounds like a good idea since some of them I have never had contact with.  I wonder if they would know I deleted them as a friend? 

 @  I send a little note to let them know I was thinking about them.

I'll go out to their profile page and comment on their blogs from time to time and no response or anything ever comes back my way to let me know that they are alive and kicking.

I only delete people when I start getting the mass emails. I'll give you one time, but after that Imma have to cut ya!

I agree the mass emails are a bit of a pain but that does let me know that they are alive and well or atleast still on OH if not BAF. 

However, if it's a mass email to tell me something that they put into their blog anyway then Imma have to cut ya...  deep! 

Hi Double_Ayy, you never know how you may be helping these silent friends. I know that I blog a lot, my story is there. If someone wants to read it and gets something from it that is cool, they never have to say a word to me to benefit from my story. At the same time, I sometimes silently view profiles of people on my friends list just to see how they are doing. I don't view them all but I won't delete them either because they may be benefitting from my experience and I may benefit from their experience. That is what I am here for anyway.

YEAH..........................(what amanda said)......................

you stoopid cole