Interracial Relationships

Tsunami
on 4/24/09 7:09 am - Atlanta, GA
Black women and Asian men are considered the least desirable in the dating pool.   Too many black women have bought into that.  We need to start looking at ourselves through new eyes if we don't want to be alone.  If you think you are undesirable you put up with a lot of crap.

Back when I was dating I dated whoever was interested in me that I found attractive and that meant black, Hispanic or Asian men.  I never dated white men because they always approached me in a sexual manner and that was an automatic turn-off for me.  What I learned is a man is a man... and people of color all have some sort of baggage they are carrying.   

        
anewme_2009
on 4/24/09 7:57 am
I LOVE that dancin girl - how'd you do that?!?  Work it!  
"I would rather be what God chose to make me than the most glorious creature that I could think of; for to have been thought about, born in God's thought, and then made by God, is the dearest, grandest and most precious thing in all thinking."  by George MacDonald

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wonkad
on 4/23/09 12:13 pm - IL
Good post!

I have friends and family who question me often about my inability to find a "good black men". I personally have no issues with race. I love dating men who treat me like a queen. It's difficult to explain, but when I'm with Mike, we don't see the stares, we don't hear the comments.

Interracial dating is very difficult. You would have to get to know ME, Juanita, not WonkaD to fully understand why I do it. I have an easier time dating outside of my race...mos def another topic for another day. I love my Black brothers. I have the world's best Dad and in several months, Pops and Moms will be celebrating 55 years of marriage. He taught us to love, love, love the one that we are with and not to let color come into play. This comes from a man who was raised deep in the Delta and was surrounded by Jim Crow and the Klan.

Mike and I are planning our wedding now. Sure, our journey has been difficult, but it's been well worth it.

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* Amanda *.
on 4/23/09 12:20 pm - Chicago, IL
Mike and I are planning our wedding now.

Why am I just now hearing about this !!! Congrats
wonkad
on 4/23/09 10:52 pm - IL
I'm trying to keep it under wraps until I get my ring. He's very persistent about finding the perfect one...I just want a band.

I'll call you this weekend.

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nikkemo
on 4/23/09 12:43 pm - Orange, CA
Congratulations and I hope yor wedding is all you guys dream it to be.
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wonkad
on 4/23/09 10:53 pm - IL
Thanks Lady!

I want something nice and simple. Either Vegas or Jamaica for the wedding and a small reception to follow at home when we get back.

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nikkemo
on 4/23/09 11:01 pm - Orange, CA
That's good.  I swear if I ever plan another one of my weddings it will be in Vegas or the Islands, at most ten people.  My last one was planned at a restaurant with over a 100 guests.  All that money down the damn drain
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taw1975
on 4/23/09 2:27 pm - DFW, TX
I'm glad wedding plans made him have a real name instead of C*

Congrats!!!
wonkad
on 4/23/09 11:00 pm - IL
You know it was ULTRA difficult for me not to type CORNY.

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