OT: Married and devoted mofos - what makes you NOT cheat?

It's not worth the trouble.

The fact that I know just how good I have it.  

Why mess up a good thing for something thats not guaranteed to be  just as good.   

Like the words of one of my favorite Luther songs.....

Love is a gamble,  and I am so glad that I am winning. 

The fact that I know just how good I have it.  



Co-signing.  I'm not messing this up for ANYbody!

I dont even think about cheating,  just the thought puts a frown on my face. Just the thought of having to deal with another mofo's **** and having to train his a$$ keeps me where I am. I have logged in 16 years of work just to get him how I want him, dont have the time or energy to invest in someone else.

Love and the knowledge that what I have is one-of-a-kind.    What we share goes way beyond sex, but even if there was someone out there who could blow my back out better (and I doubt that there is), it'd be crazy of me to even take the risk.

I'm just not interested in looking elsewhere.  I have told myself if anything happened to my husband I would never get married again.  It would be too much work getting used to another person. 

It's best to avoid putting yourself in situations where there is temptation. 
You also need to keep other people out of your relationship especially if you are having problems. Well meaning friends, relatives or even strangers can destroy your relationship if you are not careful.   

interesting question, T.

When I was married and I ended up cheating, it was because by that time, I didn't give a damn about the marriage or my wife.  I regret cheating, don't get me wrong, cuz nothing good came out of it. 

But for years I didn't cheat.  What it came down to as to why I didn't cheat before i finally did were a few reasons.  1. I still loved my wife then, 2. I wanted to stick to my vows and 3. she was my friend and I'm loyal to those few I call real friends. 

Temptation is a natural thing, but u don't have to succumb to it.  

just my two cents worth. 

What I've discovered is that no one is perfect and when you jump in and out relationships you just trade one issue for another. Like, you have a husband that is a workaholic but all the bills paid. You cheat on him for someone that spends time with you but that joker don't wanna work and always think you suppose to go "half".

It's just not worth it at all especially when kids are involved.

I've been married for 13 years now (married when I was 18) and I wouldn't change this roller coaster ride for nothing in the world. The good days outweigh the bad!

its hard to NOT cheat.  i'm married...happily...and i'm SO in love....i'm so in love its ridiculous.

but i'm a man who loves women.  i love the way they look, feel, smell, taste....DAMN i love women.

so temptations are always there. its a fight to make myself do the right thing.

contrary to popular opinion, people don't cheat cuz they're unhappy. they don't cheat because something's wrong with them or their spouse or their relationship.  wait, thats why SOME people cheat but thats not why ALL people cheat.

temptation is.....well, its tempting. the flesh is weak so its better if you don't test it.

i've never cheated on a woman in my life.....but i've been tempted. i'm always tempted.

^5 - temptation is a MOTHER - and not necessarily requiring you to be unhappy where you are.....

deep thoughts bruh - DEEP thoughts....