OT: Married and devoted mofos - what makes you NOT cheat?

I love my husband and take my marriage vows seriously. He is one of a kind, even with his flaws. And he puts up with MY flaws and STILL loves me! I figure that right chere is pretty hard to find...LOL.

I "date to mate" so I'm truly a one man woman.

Tempted....naw, love is waaaaayyyy better.

I've been with my husband nearly eleven years.  I can say we honestly have a mutual understanding of what being in a relationship involves. 

I met him when he turned his playa card in lol...  He met me when having a man was not a priority so there were no pressure.

Have I ever been tempted no.. Do I like to look yes. As I'm sure he does.  There are lines and boundaries that I would never cross and don't think he would... Not being naive but real.

Plus there are toooo many disease going around to be acting on temptation..


So MACK what made you ask??

LOL!!!!!

Let's just say I was in a speed boat circling temptation isle today...... and didn't DOCK.....

Honestly I don't have the desire, time, energy or tha patience to be cheating.
That means I've gotta lie - I'm a terrible liar.
That means I've gotta put out twice as much.
That means I've gotta double up on my vitamins - cause a sistah I TIRED from this one job, 3 kids, 2 mothers, 1 dog and one husband - all *****QUIRE My time and attention.

As a woman it's not like I don't have enough to do.  There is still shopping, laundry, cleaning, kids crap....I personally don't see how folks find the time to spil out and cheat on the regular with everything that makes up the busy routine of family life.

Also if there were problems inside the marriage the extra time spent away could be put to better use trying to fix what's wrong at home.

It's just NOT worth it.

i am a divorce lawyer and know what divorce and breaking up a home does 2 a child. so, my 4 yr old son is what keeps me straight!

i will not risk his emotional health and happiness.  i disagree with the whole "it's about me and if i'm not happy i'm out!".  i agree if u r being hurt or abused u need 2 go. but, other than that, i believe u lost that choice once u decided 2 have a child. that child's happiness and well being have 2 come 1st.

What he's slinging and diamonds!  Just kidding, well sort of...   I think it is the mutual love and respect that keeps me interested.  Not to mention the fact that we always keep it spicy.  We don't let ourselves get "comfortable" in the relationship and still keep it like we are dating.  I think that makes a difference because I do all the stuff I would do and then some when we dated so it's never boring.  I have never been tempted but I do like to "look", hell as long as your hand isn't caught in the cookie jar it's all good with my DH.  It's human nature to find others attractive but we control how we act on those impulses.

Because I know that crazy ******* wouldve initally joined the MArines but chose the air force instead b/c at the time they had the bigger and better deal: HE IS A CRAZY ******* AND HE WOULD MURDER MY ENTIRE FAMILY AND HIS!