OT: Sex in the City vs. Fuggin in da Hood
Terri D.
on 4/28/09 6:31 am
on 4/28/09 6:31 am
Hey there.
1. How come when sistas go at it like these chicks it's considered Whorish By Nature? Because Mrs. Massah foolishly thought we could "just say no" to Mr. Massah. We've been fighting sexual repression and the notion of sexual immorality since.
2. What could brothas do to have a Sex in the City type of lifestyle that don't end up in keyed cars, hang up phone calls at 3am, and ex-girlfriends popping by on a Friday/Saturday night to not holla but "yell at them" for being dumped? I don't know . . . stop lying?
3. Where in the world do we find 4 sistas who can stay good friends for the entire length of a two hour movie let alone more than 2 or three years? Open your eyes.
4. How come none of the women in the movie ever ended up with a baby-daddy situation? Personally, I hate the term. He was somebody to you when you made the baby, let him be that same person when it's over. My ex-husband is the father of my children, not my baby-daddy.
1. How come when sistas go at it like these chicks it's considered Whorish By Nature? Because Mrs. Massah foolishly thought we could "just say no" to Mr. Massah. We've been fighting sexual repression and the notion of sexual immorality since.
2. What could brothas do to have a Sex in the City type of lifestyle that don't end up in keyed cars, hang up phone calls at 3am, and ex-girlfriends popping by on a Friday/Saturday night to not holla but "yell at them" for being dumped? I don't know . . . stop lying?
3. Where in the world do we find 4 sistas who can stay good friends for the entire length of a two hour movie let alone more than 2 or three years? Open your eyes.
4. How come none of the women in the movie ever ended up with a baby-daddy situation? Personally, I hate the term. He was somebody to you when you made the baby, let him be that same person when it's over. My ex-husband is the father of my children, not my baby-daddy.
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Hey there.
Sah dit tay!
1. How come when sistas go at it like these chicks it's considered Whorish By Nature? Because Mrs. Massah foolishly thought we could "just say no" to Mr. Massah. We've been fighting sexual repression and the notion of sexual immorality since.
Okay. So it's Mrs. Massah's fault? I be's confused.
2. What could brothas do to have a Sex in the City type of lifestyle that don't end up in keyed cars, hang up phone calls at 3am, and ex-girlfriends popping by on a Friday/Saturday night to not holla but "yell at them" for being dumped? I don't know . . . stop lying?
Now you know a brotha gotta have SOME game. If he doesn't then the woman would think he's soft.
3. Where in the world do we find 4 sistas who can stay good friends for the entire length of a two hour movie let alone more than 2 or three years? Open your eyes.
None there. Next...
4. How come none of the women in the movie ever ended up with a baby-daddy situation? Personally, I hate the term. He was somebody to you when you made the baby, let him be that same person when it's over. My ex-husband is the father of my children, not my baby-daddy.
Take note, Ladies. Real talk.
Sah dit tay!
1. How come when sistas go at it like these chicks it's considered Whorish By Nature? Because Mrs. Massah foolishly thought we could "just say no" to Mr. Massah. We've been fighting sexual repression and the notion of sexual immorality since.
Okay. So it's Mrs. Massah's fault? I be's confused.
2. What could brothas do to have a Sex in the City type of lifestyle that don't end up in keyed cars, hang up phone calls at 3am, and ex-girlfriends popping by on a Friday/Saturday night to not holla but "yell at them" for being dumped? I don't know . . . stop lying?
Now you know a brotha gotta have SOME game. If he doesn't then the woman would think he's soft.
3. Where in the world do we find 4 sistas who can stay good friends for the entire length of a two hour movie let alone more than 2 or three years? Open your eyes.
None there. Next...4. How come none of the women in the movie ever ended up with a baby-daddy situation? Personally, I hate the term. He was somebody to you when you made the baby, let him be that same person when it's over. My ex-husband is the father of my children, not my baby-daddy.
Take note, Ladies. Real talk. 
I'll TAKE NOTE OF A NICCA THAT IS A FATHER....
My BABY DADDY has never seen my daughter since she was 6 mos old (she's 9 now) and hasn't ever contributed a DIME to support her.
So, BRUHS - take NOTE - you are worth being called something when you DO the things that come with the moniker.
My BABY DADDY has never seen my daughter since she was 6 mos old (she's 9 now) and hasn't ever contributed a DIME to support her.
So, BRUHS - take NOTE - you are worth being called something when you DO the things that come with the moniker.
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on 4/28/09 6:32 am, edited 4/28/09 7:03 am - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
on 4/28/09 6:32 am, edited 4/28/09 7:03 am - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
Ok I'll add my real two cents.
1.) I think it also has a lot to do with the economic and social status of the women....now had they been 4 trailer park hill billies....I am sure the spin would have not looked all too pretty. There was a similar series...Girlfriends with sistas and their sexual escapades did not come across as whorish either. I think this can be generalized to RL....if you have a little outward class ..it throws a different spin on it.
2.) I defer...I am not trying to give brothas any clues on how to be hoes LOL!
3.) These women do exist...and they usually have a solid set of morals and sense of loyalty. They exist in every walk of life...but they are usually the ones at home minding there own business...so they aren't really noticeable. ETA: I know a few.
4.) As Mack Mama had said about Miranda.
1.) I think it also has a lot to do with the economic and social status of the women....now had they been 4 trailer park hill billies....I am sure the spin would have not looked all too pretty. There was a similar series...Girlfriends with sistas and their sexual escapades did not come across as whorish either. I think this can be generalized to RL....if you have a little outward class ..it throws a different spin on it.
2.) I defer...I am not trying to give brothas any clues on how to be hoes LOL!
3.) These women do exist...and they usually have a solid set of morals and sense of loyalty. They exist in every walk of life...but they are usually the ones at home minding there own business...so they aren't really noticeable. ETA: I know a few.
4.) As Mack Mama had said about Miranda.
1.) I think it also has a lot to do with the economic and social status of the women....now had they been 4 trailer park hill billies....I am sure the spin would have not looked all too pretty. There was a similar series...Girlfriends with sistas and their sexual escapades did not come across as whorish either. I think this can be generalized to RL....if you have a little outward class ..it throws a different spin on it.
True. If this had been Sex in the Trailer park, you'd have cousins bangin cousins and mawfuggas calling each other Uncle-Daddy.
2.) I defer...I am not trying to give brothas any clues on how to be hoes LOL!
Traitor!
3.) These women do exist...and they usually have a solid set of morals and sense of loyalty. They exist in every walk of life...but they are usually the ones at home minding there own business...so they aren't really noticeable. ETA: I know a few.
I've heard rumors that they exist in sororities, knitting circles, and yard sales, but I'm not sure.
True. If this had been Sex in the Trailer park, you'd have cousins bangin cousins and mawfuggas calling each other Uncle-Daddy.
2.) I defer...I am not trying to give brothas any clues on how to be hoes LOL!
Traitor!
3.) These women do exist...and they usually have a solid set of morals and sense of loyalty. They exist in every walk of life...but they are usually the ones at home minding there own business...so they aren't really noticeable. ETA: I know a few.
I've heard rumors that they exist in sororities, knitting circles, and yard sales, but I'm not sure.
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