The secret to the game

So what would you tell women about the game that you feel that they need to know?

I don't like to call it a "game" even though sometimes it truly feels like one.  However,  as stated in my post above The secret is IMO is to let the man "catch" you!

So what do the sistas who ain't falling bucket-nekkid out of a window supposed to do if they see a man below who doesn't know how to open his arms and assume the position?

I ain't giving up my *secrets* till I retire from da game..I'm just sayin...

YaYa, you're aiight wit me but:



on that last answer.

...My Girl  Ya Ya!!!!!!!

....sorry Aaron

Maybe I will right a book or something...I do have some *stories* to tell and we both KNOW I like to write

Speaking of which I'm working on typing up the last couple

 (fuming as I think of a snappy comeback)



Here goes...

D_A, we got this thing twisted it's not a game! It boils down to knowing what you want and going for it!

I'm too way old for playing games!

I agree.  I see a lot of sistas treat this whole thing like a game and end up shortchanging themselves in the process.  To me it's like they look at it from the standpoint (sometimes) of:

1.  He's cute.  We'll look good together.
2.  He's a little rough around the edges.  I can change him.
3.  It's been months and he ain't talking about settling down.  I'll make him jealous.
4.  He's gone.  Now I feel empty.

WTF?!  Where's your desires, hopes, dreams, needs in any of that for yourselves.