When you're thin why do people...

feel its ok to comment on just how thin you are? Not talking about OH or BAF because I'm cool with discussing my weight on the board but Krazy's post got me thinking about all the times in the past few months I have heard the question: "Are you done losing" 
"How much you've lost now
"How much you weigh"
 "You're disappearing"
"You need to watch it now" 
"I would never want to be as thin as you"
NOW when my ass was fat and gaining weight why didn't I hear
 "Are you done gaining" 
"How much have you gained" 
"How much do you weigh" "you are really spreading" "You need to watch it now"  "How much bigger are you going to get?"
"I would NEVER want to get as big as you"

Now I'm sure they thought it but what makes it ok to verbalize the other like they are any less invasive because I'm smaller?

Just a thought.....

I'm still big but I can't help you out with that.  I have had people ask me how much I weigh?  How much bigger do I plan on getting? etc.  I didn't appreciate that and now that I'm losing, I don't appreciate the comments now.  It really irks me when people who don't know me feel so comfortable coming up to me and discussing my weight no matter if it's too much or little.  I understand it coming from folks who know me and are concerned but why is it that people just feel so comfortable bringing up folks weight?

EXACTLY! I don't know when my weight became an issue that I granted you permission to invade my personal space. My all time worse comment I get now is "skinny minnie" they didn't say whatsup lard ass and I guess its a compliment but I have always said my weight/size does not define me when i was bigger and it STILL don't define me now.

LOL!!!  The **** that ****** me SMOOTH off is when mofos tell me:

"You're just fine - WHY are you getting plastics?"
"Your stomach doesn't LOOK that big"
"Now you're just being vain - you lost the weight, you should be happy"
"Oh so you can't LOSE it, so you're going to CUT yourself down to a size 6?"

******S!!!!!  lol - how bout you get a slap in the mouf from this thin *****  Or how about a knuckle sammich???

MANNNNN!!! That's what they say about my stomach well its not "that bad" I'm like naw I just hide it THAT well lol

LOL @ how bout you get a slap in the mouth from this thin ***** Or how about a knuckle sammich ?......priceless

You look lovely...Keep up the good work..Your healthy and happy now and let them now that...LOL....

Thanks Ms. Sonjia! IAt first it was easier because I could say well I still have a nother few pounds I personally won't to get down to. NOW I'm a little under where I like so I think it just gets under my skin a lil bit more because now I'm self concious about it.

Hey girl I need a good laugh. I'm home for now miss talking with you. To answer your question just like you said they are just crazy people.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE the new pic my friend! We're going to have to get together soon...if you stay in town long enough lol