If I had the guts, I would......

We all have something we would LOVE to do, but are just scared.....

Not talking about something that we can't do because of $$

Not that we can't do because of time....

that we just haven't done because we are SCARED!!!!!

~If I had the guts, I would wear tank tops in public without a sleeved shirt over it.

~If I had the guts, I would sign up for an open mic night at a comedy club

~If I had the guts, I would wear red lipstick.

So ---- what you got???

~If I had the guts, I would sign up for an open mic night at a comedy club

~If I had the guts, I would wear red lipstick.

Gotta agree with those 2.

Here's mine...

1.Hunt Tyler Perry down, run that N.O. homegirl rap and ask for a smallspeaking role and work up to major part. (I've always wanted to be an actress, but being black, female, fat, and just average looking at best ain't gonna cut it).
2. Bungee jump.  Well, it's not nerve, it's weight.  Once I get to 160-199 (not goal), it's on.  Wanted to do in college, but got whiplash on ride b4 (long story).  Started gaining after that.  But it's gonna be on at that point!!!
3. Start a convo with a man I don't know
4. Skinny dip
5. Take swimming lessons


Sure there's more.. that'll hold me...

what's up with the convo thing?  you've never done that/  for reals?

MM, I've ALWAYS been guy shy... kinda shy to boot.  NO ONE believes me.  Just b/c I the loud joking chic... shoot, I joke my way out of uncomfy situations... My momma even said she wasn't buying what I was selling - said it's not shyness, it's lack of confidence.  One friend said I just wasn't sociable..

But if that's my boy... no problems... And I prefer guys as friends and have had many over my lifetime...unless I start feeling him -then I get quiet.

Have I done it? Yeah - after bucking myself up or sipping long & strong on courage juice (but the drunker I get, the more quieter I get.. gotta do it b/t buzzed and slightly drunk).. 

I'll say it for you all... I'm pitiful. aIn't no shame.. 1st step to solving a problem is to admitting there is one.  So for some on here that don't like it?I think u already know...

no need for you to have a lack of confidence--cute as you are.


And trust me, I've read your posts,, there is NOTHING for you to be shy about. Your pic and your posts, have been entertaining, and informational,,,, ditch the drinking to say what you wanna say--its unbecoming.


Nothing like nice words from an ugly, loud mouth, nicca, huh?

just my two cents


one bad ass Quedawg

MM;

If I had guts I would quit my job and do what I want to do! What THAT is....I dont know I just want to do whatever it is I want to do!!

If I had guts I would wear daisy duke shorts this summer!

I may have more let me think!

You are NOT average looking!! You are gorgeous!!

Hi #1MM!

If I had the guts....I would get rid of the wig and wear my bald fade....I have always had a thick head of hair...its just something...I can't get used too. Family and friends say my fade looks nice on me...perhaps once I get rid of the last bit of weight ...I will consider it more seriously.

This is the main thing for now.




   

yea - you would get MAD props for me for daring that one - I wore a short cut for a while - but MY head is WAY too big for a fade!!! 

MD;

Check out my page I am a bald head lady and I LOVE IT! Rock that head!