Daytime TV is making me stupid

RE: Married virgins

In either case (male/female) if the spouse does not like sex or doesn't care to have it, then in general, either they are gay or were sexually abused or raped and never dealt with it.

I definitely think there are some unresolved psychological issues as well.  It's a natural desire, to have so much anxiety about it is definitely mental.

That's the 1 thing we can agree on.  No uterus no opinion.

I'm home alot so If I ever started with the day time TV thing my IQ would decline to about 60 which is what my waistline would get up to.  RNY or not, its the road to grazing all day.  I know myself and I  know chips and I know pretzels...

Having kids? If you're a consenting adult its nobidies business but your own.  Screw who doesn't like it.  Its not up to the public at large. 

As for the question of abortion?  I'm a pro choice Roman Catholic (with excommunication pending any minute now, lol).  Reason, not that I do not value life.  I value the right to make your own medical decisions in a private dignified manner as well.  Abortion is a medical procedure and when we determine which women are entitled to this procedure and under what cir****tances I question what medical procedure is next to be censored.  The same conservative right that seeks to restrict abortion for poor women with the govornment as payor advocate tying aid to poor nations to declines in birth rate by abortion and sterilization of women.  Even when theses practices conflict with the prevailing culture and religion. 

Married Virgins?  There is something wrong with these women and their husbands.  I can accept that some people genuinely have little interest in sex.  However, unless its mutual it just makes no sense.  If sex is that painful, seek medical attention.  If sex drive is zero, seek medical and/ or psychological help and find out why.  As for him?  He's more than likely getting his elsewhere or giving himself a serious repetative motion injury of the wrist. 

Heavy stuff.

Girl, I excommunicated myself.  With the exception of my father's funeral, I haven't stepped foot in a Catholic church for services in probably 20 years.  I'm not a fan of organized religion and think to some extent it's a cult, but I digress. 

I agree though, there are such strong opinions on 1 subject with little or no attention paid to others, OR the approach to other issues is contradictory.  I don't get that.

I'm not going to go there on the abortion thing, but my Godmother who I spent most of my childhood with didn't like having sex. She told me that she didn't like it and it hurt her too bad. She use to tell me all the time don't let that man put that nasty thang in you.  Her and my Godfather were married for over 50 years. She lived to be 105 and was in good health until 103 when she had a stroke and then later fell and broke her hip. I always wondered if her not having sex was a reason she lived so long.

ETA: There was talk that my godfather had a son out there.

That was the 7 year sexless chicks problem. Her mother said sex was disgusting and painful and all kinds of negative things, but you had to do it cause  your husband owns you.  Had the girl all f*cked up in the head.  I still think 7 year chick was running game on the husband though.