I can put my sister's pictures back

(deactivated member)
on 6/2/09 9:07 am - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA

Update regarding my sister's pictures:

I just want to send my heartfelt thanks out to all who expressed concerns about my sister's pictures being removed from my signature line. Despite checking my signature on two different computers, they simply were not there for some reason...only Xs in there place. I have since sent a message to OH and their response follows.  It looks like I can put them back up.  I am very happy...because even though I did not want to admit it...I was upset about the issue. It may seem like a silly issue to some...but when I did not see them there...it just felt like another stab in the heart.  Thanks to OH and everyone again for your support. 

   
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Technical Support Request
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Submitted 06/02/2009 01:51pm
Answered June 2, 2009, 3:44 pm

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Request sent from
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Name: Lisa M
Email:

Member ID:
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Problem Description
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Problem Category: Some or all of profile is missing
Comments/Questions: My pics of my missing sister were removed from my siggy line. I was curious why they were taken off. She can't give her consent. She is missing. Thanks for an explanation.

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Solution
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Hello Lisa M,

We show no record on your account that we approved a removal. If we removed information from your signature area you would have received an e-mail stating the reason. At this time we do not see any reason why a picture of your missing sister would not be permitted, feel free to re-add it to your signature. Our thoughts are with your family and hope your sister has a safe return.

Sincerely,
ObesityHelp Member Support Staff
[email protected]

marilyn63
on 6/2/09 9:36 am - piscataway, NJ
OMG,That was so nice.Will keep you in constant prayer.Love Ya'
(deactivated member)
on 6/2/09 12:18 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA

Thanks Marilyn,

I am happy that they did not intentionally try to tick me off by pillaging my signature line.

Lisa
mamapeaches05
on 6/2/09 9:39 am - Hot Springs, AR
God is still answering prayer!  Excuse me will I praiz da Lord with my feet! Lord y'all I been shouting all day. LOL
Mama Peaches Diva on a Journey
I am somebody, I have a purpose, and I'm going somewhere
Just prazin the Lord wit my feet!

Running Man

    
(deactivated member)
on 6/2/09 1:52 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
Well...its a good thing for me. I can feel free to hang around without feeling as if folks are trying to be passive aggressive. It just seemed so petty. I mean the pics were not harming anyone. I now have a feeling that someone was bored one night and decided to act up a little.  Just glad that OH did not sanction it. Thanks Mama Peaches!
Kathleen T.
on 6/2/09 11:20 am
Glad to hear the GOOD NEWS she was always in my mine.
It may have some way been removed form the site but everytime I seen your picture I remember hers. Glad to know it will be back.
"A Man's heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. 
Proverb 16:9
May not be where I want to be but I glad to be where I'm at.
Working at getting the rest of the way.

12/10/2012 I'll be having LBL, BL/BA, thigh & arm lift, eyelid
Body by Dr. Sauceda    booked to 12/9--12/22
(deactivated member)
on 6/2/09 1:55 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
Thanks Kathleen,

Its all done in the name of increasing awareness of the missing and also to help folks not take for granted the people that are in their life. You never know when you might not be able to hug or say I love you to that person. Its was not the siggy itself but what it stood for in my mind.  Glad I can bring her back and have yet a another way to keep her close to me. Take it easy. L  
Kathleen T.
on 6/3/09 3:24 pm
You're welcome, We are victims of violent my baby brother was kill and we still also missed him dearly he was the clown of the family and the heart beat of it. When he got killed things stopped for a while.  We had to realize that we had kids we had to live to carry on his memory.  My twin sister's baby girl middle name is Quinn that was his middle name so yes They are missed dearly. 
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HOPING YOU FIND AN END TO YOUR MISSING SISTER.
"A Man's heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. 
Proverb 16:9
May not be where I want to be but I glad to be where I'm at.
Working at getting the rest of the way.

12/10/2012 I'll be having LBL, BL/BA, thigh & arm lift, eyelid
Body by Dr. Sauceda    booked to 12/9--12/22
(deactivated member)
on 6/2/09 2:11 pm

Please don't flame me but, I have to ask....does having the picture there really help you to move on?

*disclaimer* I am not the one that reported you

Deep down do you think your sister has passed? I am really curious to know

(deactivated member)
on 6/2/09 3:00 pm, edited 6/2/09 8:06 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
Ro....I can never move on. Yes, I believe my sister is dead. I believe in my heart that her boyfriend killed her. I will not stop until either he or the real killer is behind bars,  she walks back into our lives or I am dead. I just could not live with myself any other way.  My sister and I were very close. I know its hard to fathom but  even if she is just dust and bones...she deserves a proper burial. I can't have my own flesh and blood just discarded like a bag of garbage. She meant more to me than that...and I know she would do the same for me. 

I put my sister picture up in my siggy line more for other people than for me.  Sometimes folks take for granted people in their lives. People have estranged themselves from loved one over stupid **** People fuss at their kids over stupid **** Until that person is no longer there for you to hug or you to love...its the farthest thing from the mind. I tell my kids about 20 times a day...how much I love them. We will be just driving down the street and I blurt out without warning..."I love you".  They laugh and say " we love you too" with their little we have already heard this 19 times today smirk.  I don't know when I am going to be called out of this world...
and I want my kids to know how much I love them....I leave no doubt through words and through action.   

I know I got off on a tangent but  for families of the missing there is no moving on and there is no closure. Believe me if I could have it any other way I would..its the most torturous kind of feeling any one could have.  I play the last time I saw her over and over in my mind. Wondering if I had said or done something differently would she be here today.  The only thing that give me solace is knowing that we are not alone.  Helping other cope with this type of crisis...helps me...AND I still have HOPE.  

I don't know what else to say.  
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