2 simple words

stand by it, right or wrong. 

i'm glad you sought a 2nd opinion. 

I'm the type that if I've done something wrong I can admit to it and apologize for it. On the other hand I'm divorced because my ex did something and has to this date never apologized for it because he didn't think it was wrong. It's that thing called, "Adultry".  But I'm to the point now that WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND".

Brenda

ok bren real talk time?  this is the thing they can't (but need most to) apologize for - WTF??   i'm sorry that you didn't, at a minimum get that.  dayum.   what i should say to you next is i'm sorry that ended things.   thas what i should say.    um, crickets. 

You know for me it was a good thing because there is someone out there for me. But some guys take it to their graves and never apologize.DAMN!!! It's a Ego thang I guess.

 please believe that


  can i tell you that when Jon says i don't hate Kate i clutched my imaginary pearls.  speak up then move on.  

The unfortunately thing is that PRIDE is what stops many from admitting to be wrong about anything.  That,, I think and immaturity.   After all it takes a real grown up to admit to having done something wrong.  The thing is, its not limited to the fellas.  I've known plenty of women who have done things that may have been deemed "inappropriate" and kept it moving because they were "..just doing me, boo.."   Its unfortunate, but it happens.

just gonna keep askin until.

1.  your opinion - what's there to be PROUD about?  (lemme try askin another way, when the kids do somethin and they get caught, yelled at, swatted, then they poke their lip out, they're angry at having been admonished) forgiveable b/****il they're taught they're not supposed to know better, is it like that? mad at having been [___________]?

2.  i'm giggling b/c you always wanna drag the women down with you - i know it it's not limited cuz i started by asking the ladies to tell if they were reluctant also

3.  immaturity - thank you, i'm learning, keep talking

dayum i'm starting to feel like i'm the one with the pig nose b/c it's just not that big a deal.

Hey girl,

I believe that some men think its admitting defeat.  Some men think it's a sign of weakness and some men....just don't get it.  They really don't.  They may not EVEN realize that you were hurt or upset over something they did or said and they are COMPLETELY unaware that you want, maybe even NEED an apology to be able to move beyond it.  Then there the men who know....and just don't give a damn.  In that case...it's time to go.

As for me, I realized a long time ago that apologizing is part of forgiveness.  Unforgiveness blocks blessings!   It holds you captive in the pain and can, if allowed to fester and grow, block good things from coming into your heart.  Forgiveness doesn't mean that you allow others to abuse you or that you will even stay in relationship with a person. Forgiveness means to "untie".  So when you forgive you untie yourself from the pain and let it go. More times than not that is easier said than done.  As for me, with God's help I have been able to forgive.  I have to rely on His ability to help let it go, because on my own, I could not have done it and I admit, many times that is a long process. 

If I want to be forgiven, from God and everyone else I must be willing to forgive.  If we can not forgive, God says that we can not be forgiven.  So I do apologize when I have jacked it up or even if I THINK that may have jacked it up and I most certainly forgive others because I will not allow my blessings to be blocked by my a hardened heart.  Life is just too damn short for that.

hey angel! 

dr. glamazon ladies n' gentlemen.    preach.

Hey boo....I need to polish off my license!!