I Dont Understand


Particulary for those that have done WELL

I understand that life gets good and you start enjoying the slimmer, healthier
new body.....but why not share your success with the board.
If for nothing else, to be able to motivate others to keep with their dreams
and get your " due props "

In life, and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.
I think people leave Forums for a lot of reasons: Out-grew the basic conversation, Don't like the Newbies, Found something or someone to substitute/replace the Forum, The Forum became "boring" or no longer added to them or filled their need...
I think people return to Forums because of a need that can not be filled otherwise or the person has not found a substitute for yet or the substitute that they found has NOW become "boring...". When people Return to BAF or OH, it is almost always for selfish reasons. But then, isn't that OK. That's why AA and NA are so successful, It Works and People keep coming Back! People who come to OH and lose weight, go through their wt loss experience...may eventually leave, but will at some point return, even if only to "Lurk" because they Discover/Affirm that they are ADDICTS and need help...they can't do it on their own or maintain wt loss on their own, and they need people who are similarily situated to help them. Maybe they have a similar type group in Real Life, but there are times when Real Life inconvinences happen...like work or family...and they can't or don't have the time to actually go somewhere in person. That's when they discover/rediscover that it is good to have a back-up plan and come back. Anyway, it's all good, people get their needs met and that's what it's all about.
Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good!
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.

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