Did We Really Pass the Physic Test for WLS

ahhhh your just a baby at a month or so out lol enjoy the great benefits of wls.....the mind still plays games on me and i am five years out.....

i went to lunch today with some former co workers and they were saying "omg  cynthia you have lost so much weight" and I hadn't since i last saw them.....give or take 10llbs but, i still have a hard time taking compliments.......weird....

anywho......do your thangggg and continue to work the hell out of your tool .....looking good

honestly, I think there needs to be a psych eval midway through, at 1 year and etc.  I definitely feel you on this.  I'm in complete denial about my changes.  Every time I go down a size, I'm like "oh, it must just be cut big" Granted some things are cut big (like the size 12 dress I just tried at Ross) but not everything.  I can't get used to it, even though when I put on some old big girl pants and they fall off before I can even take a step towards the mirror to look. I still can't fully wrap my mind around the new me.  I'm still making a bee line to the women's section when I shop and when the smallest size doesn't work, I refuse to go to "misses"

Definitely takes some adjustment!!!
Don't know what to tell ya on this one buddy, but I will say I love your avie

LOL!  you are JUST starting the mind trip, buddy!  Welcome to the ride!!!!

*I* STILL will grab old clothes i have laying around - even after losing 200lbs and TWO rounds of plastic surgery - I grab my old 30/32 shirt to sleep in - it's comfy like a MOFO but my daughter tells me I am playing halloween too early in the year and I'm a GHOST!!!!  LMAOOOOOOOO

Umm - yea, say no to the a-a--a-a-alcohol dude - cause somebody gotta get THAT part of this journey right and I'm nominating and TOASTING to you!!!  LMAOOOO

As for the big mac - umm - yea - say no to that too cuz, but Imma make room in my calorie intake for about three good bites - I don't care if I AM throwing the rest away - that ish is gooder than a MOFO!!!

  And is that YOU in the avie or are you frontin with a pic of some other good looking bruh????  I'm just askin cause folk be lyin round here....... LOL!!!

Mama-

I know you didn't question weather that is my pic or not...... Now let me step to you like this HONEY BUN!!!! If it ain't me I would like to know who the hell dun steal my FACE!!!! If you caught him wez gonna beat his azz.!!!!LOL You know I'm tripping .....

I'm jus sayin tho.... the cute LIGHT skint-ed bruhs us under represented in this camp!!!  Had to make sho you was CERTIFIED to be QUALIFIED!  LMAOOOOOOOOO

I did not even start to read your post....damn you handsome!

Peace up \ / A-town down / \

Dedee

You gonna make me cry so stop it ......

Okay Family.....

I'm working this evening and went out to return something at the mall and while in the store Bloomingdales the dude at the counter was like whatz up BIG MAN .... I thought he was talking to me until I turned around and it was another brother standing behide me.... My ears are failng me

Help

Naw Boo!!! Do yo thang seriously, do yo thang.  As far as the mind trip thing I think we all got thru this Hell actually I'm still tripping and second guess myself when I go to the store. I hate trying on anything in the store so i wind up getting a bigger size then have to return the shlt..later . So in defense I did the psyc eval and it didn't help. So welcome aboard.

If you find somebody to help you with this one... send them my way when you are done because I could use an assist myself. 

It is all a trip.  Even the new "skinny jeans" I bought a few months ago are now literally falling off my body.  I can't keep up.  Every time I fit into a smaller size I think it is a mistake.  I look at a smaller size of pants and think "These are never going to fit!"  But then they do and it trips me out. 

I always get a salad with some protein when I go out for lunch for work or with family and friends and water.  When I can't fini**** they always ask "Aren't you hungry?  Aren't you going to eat some more?"  But honestly, I couldn't eat more if they paid me. 

Keep up with your journey and hopefully the mental part with catch up with the body changes.  But honestly, I think I will always think of myself as a fattie!