Relationships Post-WLS

MAAAANNN - whew LAWD!!!  Them days, them days........

The reason I could NEVER work for Obama - they do CHARACTER background checks...... there's plenty of shiot I can't make go away - too many bodies to bury and not enough steel oil drums to pack them hoes in!!!!!  LMAOOOOO

Damnit, woman!  You're killin me over here. 

MM you are the queen of comedy fo real

...and I really enjoyed it...REALLY ENJOYED IT 

giggling atcho silly behind sayin it twice LMAO!!! 

are you starting to feel pressure? cuz it sounds like not only are you getting a kick outta your life but you like things as they are and they work for you as they are.   you lite n' breezy ya, don't let em drag ya down lol!!   for real though, when you meet the right guy it won't seem like such a big leap.  it's still work now but it might be work you're willing to do if you love and trust him.  

I don't feel pressured...and I agree COMPLETELY that when I meet the right guy it won't seem like such a leap...just ain't happend...and MAYBE thats' because I have not allowed my heart to be open.

I'm beginning to think that perhaps this has been a method of preventing potential hurt and heartache...which of course, like most people, I have experienced. I don't know...just trying to figure all this out 

Thank you for reposnding honestly and openly

and MAYBE thats' because I have not allowed my heart to be open.

Trust me,when the right man comes along, your heart will open, whether you allow it or not.
Go with the flow Sweetie....talking from years of experience!  LOL

yeah...I have loved and lost in my day...I am human after all.

Good morning, beautiful!

After years of being in one relationship and then in marriage...and the marriage ending (thank you, Jesus!), I also began dating men and told them that I was not interested in a committed relationship (although there was one who definitely pullled at my heart strings...fortunately, we are great friends now...that situation was not to be).  As soon as the brothers started acting like they were 'tripping' I clicked on the 'ignore' button and left their asses alone.  It didn't bother ME one bit...matter of fact, I loved the INDEPENDENCE i experienced - and still do.

There is nothing wrong with how you feel...the thing is, you have to ask yourself if YOU want a committed relationship with one person...or are you more comfortable with dating and living alone with no responsibility of commitment.  As ADULTS, we make our own decisions on what we want vs. what someone else wants.

Take the time to know YOU...take the time to figure out what you want...you are continuing your education - work on that...and date.  Enjoy yourself, ain't nothing wrong with your thinking!

Hollah!

Donna

My priorites are always in check...I'm grown and do the grown woman thing quite well It's good to see that you can directly relate to what I'm saying. I don't think there is anything wrong with my choice because I'm completely honest. I just think that if it's meant to be then it will be BUT for now I'm just doing ME! IF "he" comes along I'm ready and willing to meet him and perhaps explore a relationship. I say that but do I really mean it? I think so...I do know this...I'm NOT going to lower my standards for relationship material. For now, I just want continue being happy body, mind, and soul without hurting anyone.

Thank you. This is the real stuff right here...

Just want to let you know that ... yes, we all have some type of issues.  As long as you are being true to yourself and those you have relations with, you will do fine.  Listen to your heart....it will let you know when/if the time is right to settle down.  Meanwhile, have FUN and do you.  Life is too short to do otherwise.

This is what I live by ... and so far it works for me too!