Relationships Post-WLS

Emotionally repressed and distant...don't THAT sound familiar But a girl has needs that MUST be fulfilled

Hi Sexy Ya Ya,

I have to preface my comment by saying that I am no expert by any stretch of the imagination when it comes to relationships.
 
I personally think that there is nothing wrong with the lifestyle that you are leading. You kids are grown and you are free to be with whomever for how ever long you chose. As long as you are being up front and honest with the person...no harm, no foul. 

I think its great that you are taking some time out for yourself and I agree with most others have said. Its not that you are afraid of commitment (you know yourself better than any one else)...the right person just has not come along to make a strong enough case for you to give up the freedom.  When you meet that person that DOES not bring the drama....all will be just fine. It might take some time for that person to find you...but when it happens...you will know.  

Thank you! I think that people only get themselves into trouble when they lie and are deceitful. I tell it straight...from day one. I appreciate you taking time to respond with such a meaningful statement of opinion.