I know yall will tell me if I am trippin......

OMG - I am SO trying to work up the nerve to wear a halter dress!!!  I have seen several that are SOOOO cute...... one of these days.......

That's why I said I felt two sided cause one half of me was like........you can't tell me nothing I'm down 80 pounds and I know I'm cute.

But the other half was thinking........your behind is still 240 and a little too big for that.

You are in wonderland...........so when I think about it............YOU TRIPPING!

and there I lost my LAST supporter.... LOL!!!!

yea - I'm in wonderland alright...

I wonder if I look fat in this
I wonder if my back fat shows too much in this
I wonder if this makes my stomach look 'poochy'

LOL!!! 

@  yea - I'm in wonderland alright...I wonder if I look fat in this, I wonder if my back fat shows too much in this, I wonder if this makes my stomach look 'poochy'


I wore my first halter dress this past Saturday night to a dance and I have another on deck to wear to another event.  I say to hell with it!  You better buy that halter dress!

 Girl.......you gotta build that bridge and get over it!

I totally get where you are coming from.  I am still very self consious about my body and won't wear shorts or anything short sleeves and never, ever sleeveless unless I have on a jacket or shrug to cover up.  I went to Schlitterbahn this past weekend and wore a really cute swimsuit but never took my cover-up off.  I got in the water with it on.  

If I had the $$, I would definetely be a plastic surgery junkie.  As soon as I get my mom's health issues addressed and under control, I am heading straight to the OR to get all this excess skin and fat chopped off!!   I'm getting an upper body lift, arms and thighs all done at once!   

I don't know why I felt compelled to respond to this. i guess maybe I get the opportunity to tell you YOU ARE TRIPPIN! SERIOUSLY. You lose almost 200 lbs, you have a BL, and a TT and you still self-consious. Ok Trina really! was this a i need some attention post? I have upper belly like the rest of you. No panni, just that muffin top, but I wear what the hell I feel and dare a nicka to say something. I have come to far to be sitting somewhere feeling insecure about that portion of my body when a year and a half ago 99% of my body was jacked up. Trina PLEASE!!!! YOU AND RHONDA BOTH NEED TO QUIT! Count your blessings and thank God you were fortunate enough to have cosmetic work done. Some are not as fortunate. Flaunt your stuff and wear what you want girl. Da hell with what nickas say and think!

Damn dude.... um.... well.....

Going to Victoria Secret.com to buy that halter dress I keep putting in the cart and then chickening out on.....

Going to NY and Co - buying all the colors of the halter cami I saw and didn't buy......

Making mental note to wear them THIS weekend.........

Aiight cuz - Imma shut the **** up and go satdownsomewhere................ **shouting to Rhonda** brang the calculator, *****!  I can't count in my head that high, and I don't wanna miscount these blessings she done tole us to tally - lessen we get whooped for THAT too!!!!  

thanks for the reality SMACK upside da dayum head!!!! 

All these dayum replies and all it took was for you to come in and break it down to her...NOW, she's all better!

***mumblin to myself*** I can't stand that yella heffa!  LOL

Heeeeeyyyyyy ((((Steph)))))